Is it Hate... Or am i just that slow...

[SoOoNY]

Hey ladies... I hope everyones holidays has been good. I was on my fotki today and saw that i ecieved a comment. I dont get comments much so i wondere who it was... of course it was someone signed in as a guest... and they said under a pic I have labeled as "Apl Check"

"Why are you checking for APL when you arent even full SL yet"

At first I was offended by someones blatant hate... then I thought.... am I really not full SL... the comment didnt sound malicious...but I am not a newbie... I have a solid regimen...been on the forum over a year... even given out a tidbit of info or two... however I still dont know my texture... and *maybe* my length... I dont know how to add pics here so here is the link to the pic in my fotki... th pw is nygirl...

http://public.fotki.com/SoOoNy/autumn-album/hpim1880.html

Any suggestion would be grateful...

P.s. I erased the comment


p.s.s. i realized you dont even need to go to my fotki... cause its in my siggy...lol... maybe i am slow

 

[NYAmicas]

You're SL in my eyes and the comment was rude.

 

[Kay.Dee]

That was a stupid comment and the hater obviously didn't have any courage since they decided to sign in as a guest. There is no harm in you checking for apl. They weren't even decent enough to reveal themself so I wouldn't even think about it.

ps-And you are full shoulder length

 

[DiamondDiva]

I totally agree. That comment was very rude.

 

[fivetimestwo]

Looks like you're between SL and APL and I agree that the comment was rude. Whoever it was knew it was rude which is why they did it anonymously

 

[clever]

Whoever it was probably should sit down somewhere and worry about their own hair.

 

[ajacks]

That was rude indeed. And yes you are definitely full SL at least.

 

[Lute]

I wouldnt let the comment get to you. People are gonna say what they want to say. Btw the second photo on your pinkstrips seem to have the wrong date. Since both of them say November 8th

 

[abordeaux]

You're definitely SL. The person that left the comment was rude and stupid. If they read the caption, it says that you're checking to see how far from APL you are, not whether or not you're APL.

I have a photo in one of my folders where I wrote that I felt I looked Asian. Someone left a comment that said I look better Asian. And they're a member on the board.

So.......yeah......Don't pay them any mind. People tend to grow e-balls when they log on to the internet.

 

[SelfStyled]

By checking for APL that sounds like you are reaching for achieving that goal not like you are tring to claim it- at least that would be my interpretation any way. Definitely cowardly on the part of the "guest". The guest was rude IMO. Your hair looks like full SL and is quite beautiful.

 

[abordeaux]

BTW, your hair is gorgeous and looks very healthy.

 

[NikStarrr]

you look like you're SL (and even a tad past it) to me! Really, some people just have too much time on their hands. Just ig it.

 

[gorgeous86]

Just rude for no reason!!! Your hair looks great, and you are definitely past shoulder length. Don't even pay attention to the negative comments Keep doing what you're doing, because it looks like it's working.

 

[SoOoNY]

I wouldnt let the comment get to you. People are gonna say what they want to say. Btw the second photo on your pinkstrips seem to have the wrong date. Since both of them say November 8th

your right... the first one is Nov 07...lol

 

[Candycane044]

People are silly... I don't even understand their comment considering you definitely are a ways past SL and you're very close to APL. My whole thing is, why even make a comment if you're going to do it anonymously??

 

[EOAA]

you are defintley a little pass shoulder length to me.
prolly somebody wishing they were where you are now.

 

[SoOoNY]

BTW, your hair is gorgeous and looks very healthy.

Thank you Lady... I appreciate it...

You're definitely SL. The person that left the comment was rude and stupid. If they read the caption, it says that you're checking to see how far from APL you are, not whether or not you're APL.

I have a photo in one of my folders where I wrote that I felt I looked Asian. Someone left a comment that said I look better Asian. And they're a member on the board.

So.......yeah......Don't pay them any mind. People tend to grow e-balls when they log on to the internet.

Lmao@ e-balls... Thats a new one... and yes... I KNOW i am not APL... just checking to see how far I have left to go

By checking for APL that sounds like you are reaching for achieving that goal not like you are tring to claim it- at least that would be my interpretation any way. Definitely cowardly on the part of the "guest". The guest was rude IMO. Your hair looks like full SL and is quite beautiful.

Thank you. You are correct. I was just checking to see how far I have left til I reach my second goal


Thank you Ladies for the clarification... I just wanted to make sure I didnt misjudge my own length... for those who looked thru my fotki and saw my starting point and all my breakage.... i know I have come a long way... I have picks of my bangs now that from feb that obviously grew 3to 4 inches... I just wanted to make sure I reached my first goal

 

[diligence]

That's just plain old hatin'...dust it off and keep on doin' watcha doin'...

 

[Highly Favored8]

Your hair has always looked goregous and healthy. Shake the hater(s) off. You keep it growing. You are making wonderful progress.

 

[wannabelong]

The comment was rude and they don't know what they are talking about. You are PAST SL. Pay that ignorant person no mind.

 

[msa]

I'm obviously the only one but I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt...they could have been asking a serious question (especially if they didn't read the info you provided or misinterpreted it). You can't tell tone through the internet. Also, everyone has their own idea of when a specific length can be claimed, so maybe theirs is just different from yours.

One more thing, I don't have a fotki. So if I want to leave a comment I have to be anonymous or guest or whatever. Everyone isn't signed in under guest because they're a "hater".

P.S. I'm really glad you chose a picture "sans boob" but you are definitely not "miles" away from APL. Looks like you'll be there by summer to me.

 

[loulou82]

If that's not full SL I don't know what is. Your hair is lovely.

 

[Kay.Dee]

I'm obviously the only one but I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt...they could have been asking a serious question (especially if they didn't read the info you provided or misinterpreted it). You can't tell tone through the internet. Also, everyone has their own idea of when a specific length can be claimed, so maybe theirs is just different from yours.

One more thing, I don't have a fotki. So if I want to leave a comment I have to be anonymous or guest or whatever. Everyone isn't signed in under guest because they're a "hater".

P.S. I'm really glad you chose a picture "sans boob" but you are definitely not "miles" away from APL. Looks like you'll be there by summer to me.

True, but you can sign in as a guest but you'd also be able to identify yourself in your comment if you were a member here. I don't think that's an excuse in this case.

 

[lady djm]

The comment was unnecessary. I think that your progress is great

 

[SoOoNY]

]Your hair has always looked goregous and healthy[/B]. Shake the hater(s) off. You keep it growing. You are making wonderful progress.

Girl tell the truth and shame the devil...LOL... My hair was jacked up when I got here... I a appreciate the encouraging white lie...lmao

I'm obviously the only one but I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt...they could have been asking a serious question (especially if they didn't read the info you provided or misinterpreted it). You can't tell tone through the internet. Also, everyone has their own idea of when a specific length can be claimed, so maybe theirs is just different from yours.

One more thing, I don't have a fotki. So if I want to leave a comment I have to be anonymous or guest or whatever. Everyone isn't signed in under guest because they're a "hater".

P.S. I'm really glad you chose a picture "sans boob" but you are definitely not "miles" away from APL. Looks like you'll be there by summer to me.

LOL... i wasnt trying to flash anyone...by the time I realized it was showing I had already mad my siggy and was too lazy to change it...

I thought the person didnt sound malicious... but i thought i was full SL ... idk

If that's not full SL I don't know what is. Your hair is lovely.

Thank you very much

 

[yvette]

Shake it off, just a hater. Probably some chick sitting around with bald spots in her head and mad cause your hair is together and looks nice.

 

[msa]

True, but you can sign in as a guest but you'd also be able to identify yourself in your comment if you were a member here. I don't think that's an excuse in this case.

What if it were a lurker? What if the person didn't want SoooNY to feel like she's a stalker because she's on LHCF and then went to look at SoooNY's fotki?

I never identify myself when I leave comments. I didn't know I was supposed to identify myself as an LHCF member each time I left a comment. And, if I wanted to be identified then I'd get a fotki so I don't have to be a guest.

Everyone is not a "hater" and everyone is not malicious and mean. The person could have just been asking a question and did not realize that it would come off that way. Jeez Louise. And when did people start hating on SL hair? I thought only the long haired ladies got hated on?

 

[loulou82]

^^^ Hate can come in many forms and even ladies with healthy EL and NL can get the side eye in my experience. It's not reserved for BSL and longer. I wouldn't be quick to label the comment as "hating" but who knows what the intent was since the person isn't here to clarify.

 

[SoOoNY]

What if it were a lurker? What if the person didn't want SoooNY to feel like she's a stalker because she's on LHCF and then went to look at SoooNY's fotki?

I never identify myself when I leave comments. I didn't know I was supposed to identify myself as an LHCF member each time I left a comment. And, if I wanted to be identified then I'd get a fotki so I don't have to be a guest.

Everyone is not a "hater" and everyone is not malicious and mean. The person could have just been asking a question and did not realize that it would come off that way. Jeez Louise. And when did people start hating on SL hair? I thought only the long haired ladies got hated on?

She didn't mean identify yourself as a lhcf member but just put a name... like it can say "msa guest" instead of just "guest".

and hence why I asked if it was mean because it didnt seem malicious but it could of been worded better imo... cause it wasnt a question...

and I know my hair isnt as beautiful as some long haired ladies hair but I know my joint aint tore up... I admire all hair...long or short as long as its healthy (and a great stlye too). I dont hate but some people hate on all lentghs...

 

[ShiShiPooPoo]

That comment was from a silly smart a88. They are probably a bald-headed Scally Wag...ain't got no hair in the back...weaved up, gelled-up, that mess is _____up!

Just trying to keep it light. Girl, your hair looks great...carry on!