FRUSTRATED...WANT TO CHOP IT ALL OFF....

[Mandy4610]

Ok...So I relaxed my hair. I wanted to texlax, but I ended up bone straight and even a bit over relaxed. I am so annoyed at myself, I really want to transition but with this bone straight stuff I can not even get started. It is so thin and flat, its embarrassing.
I want to texlax until my relaxer is finished and then go completely natural, but I don't know if I can stand this hair for that long.
uuuuuuuuugggggggggghhhhhhh.......this is hard, I don't know what to do with it. I think I will start slowly trimming it off.
I don't know, anyway here are the results:

 

[lisana]

after a wash or two and airdrying, it will look a lot thicker and have more texture. When I airdy my hair looks texlaxed so I know the relaxed hair will match the ng better.

 

[Proudpiscean]

Never chop in fustration. Just bun it up.....out of sight out of mind.
It will thicken up after a few washes/weeks.

 

[Mandy4610]

Thanks ladies. What do you think, Should I trim? Do the ends look like they need trimming?

 

[lisana]

Your hair looks nice in those pics. I'm not seeing what you are. I think your hair looks what it's supposed to look like after a fresh relaxer. I think you should just keep your hair moisturized and strong with protein tx and deep conditionings and give it the time to start showing ng. We are talking at least two months. Just let if start to grow out again and see how it does.

 

[Mandy4610]

Your hair looks nice in those pics. I'm not seeing what you are. I think your hair looks what it's supposed to look like after a fresh relaxer. I think you should just keep your hair moisturized and strong with protein tx and deep conditionings and give it the time to start showing ng. We are talking at least two months. Just let if start to grow out again and see how it does.

Thanks for the encouragement. I will give it time.

 

[mzhotniz86]

Thanks for the encouragement. I will give it time.

your hair looks great! what do you use for your rollersets to give it that shine?

 

[Mandy4610]

your hair looks great! what do you use for your rollersets to give it that shine?

I used Keracare leave-in and Mizani conditioning styling lotion before setting. When hair is dry I use Mizani silk finishing gel.
Sometimes I also used AtOne Supergrow for finishing, but mostly just Mizani Silk finishing gel.

 

[mzhotniz86]

I used Keracare leave-in and Mizani conditioning styling lotion before setting. When hair is dry I use Mizani silk finishing gel.
Sometimes I also used AtOne Supergrow for finishing, but mostly just Mizani Silk finishing gel.

ohhhhhh, ok! thanks! i will be invading my bss for these items. and DONT cut your hair! it looks good girl. if you want thicker, try airdrying. my hair is always fuller when i dry it like that.

 

[Mandy4610]

ohhhhhh, ok! thanks! i will be invading my bss for these items. and DONT cut your hair! it looks good girl. if you want thicker, try airdrying. my hair is always fuller when i dry it like that.

Thanks girl, I will try airdrying for sure.

 

[HoneyA]

Your hair looks good. I love the roller set. Don't chop it off just yet...let it do its thing. Be patient.

 

[Mandy4610]

Your hair looks good. I love the roller set. Don't chop it off just yet...let it do its thing. Be patient.

Thank you...........I am trying to use every bit of patience I have and I have used up pretty much all of it, but I will take all the advise everyone is giving me.

 

[lilamae]

oooohh no you don't. Your hair looks good I think you should just give it some tlc and be patient like the other girls mentioned. Please do not be discouraged..after all..the Hair Growing Buddies need you

 

[locabouthair]

I think your hair look really nice. I wish my hair looked like that after I relaxed it.

 

[Mandy4610]

oooohh no you don't. Your hair looks good I think you should just give it some tlc and be patient like the other girls mentioned. Please do not be discouraged..after all..the Hair Growing Buddies need you

:Rose:Too :sweet: ....................

 

[Mandy4610]

I think your hair look really nice. I wish my hair looked like that after I relaxed it.

thanks girl...I wish the bolding are in the back of my head could fill in faster. Oh yeah... the ladies said I should be patient .

 

[hopeful]

Your hair looks really pretty to me! Don't you dare chop it off. I'm sorry it didn't turn out how you wanted it to though. Just be patient with yourself and your hair.