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My SO is RUINING my hair. Please help.

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Iluvsmuhgrass

Iluvsmuhgrass

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My SO is a wonderful man, however during our encounters he ends up either ON my hair or moving me all over the place. I have satin pillowcases but this man is seriously doing damage to my grass. Tangles everywhere (because of uhhhh.... extra curricular activities :blush: sorry if it's TMI) Once in a while would be ok but it's like EVERY to every other day (I'm not complaining but a sista has to save her grass.)

So with that said, can someone offer some tips so I can enjoy my man without damaging my hair? I've tried buns, pig tails, updo's, two braids pinned up, but nothing works. My head scarf doesn't stay on long enough to protect me. :wallbash:
 
this is a tough one :lachen:

try braids...:ohwell:


or tie your head extra tight where you cut off the circulation, it probably wont fall off then:lachen:

:dead:
 
I was just thinking this same thing the other day. I almost hate to do my hair becaquse I know it going to be destroyed. I feel like all of my hair is going to be on the bed
 
well as for the style forget it or rock the "bed head/ just got tapped" look. As for the friction, by some satin sheets, lucky duck!!! You have a good complaint.:blush:
 
LOL, I was just talking to my BFF about this the other day... She was laughing at me histerically, but I was serious as cancer. I can't concentrate on my "O" if I am all worried about my hair. :drunk:
 
Somebody's rockin, knockin da boots!

:blondboob :poledancer: :sandm: :over18:






















I suggest a lot of protein treatments, with all the pullin and tuggin, your hair's gonna need the strength :blush: :lachen:
 
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three words - silk peptide powder.

Go for the O (notice it's a big o:grin:). You can try to work the positions as suggested so your hair is not rubbing, but I just work for strong and healthy because at times like those, I don't want to think about my hair, and I know dh is not.
 
:lachen: This thread is hilarious!!!!! :lachen:

I don't have anything different to add....getting on top is excellent...try and make sure your hair is nice and moisturized and all detangled before ah...the "session" starts. :grin: ....and maybe you could try not to let SO sweat on your head...that causes tangles....uh, don't ask me how I know :yawn: ...also jump up and remoisturize and fingercomb afterwards...you can resume cuddling after your hair is "cuddled" a bit.

...on a lighter note...this is a GREAT problem to have!
 
hmmmm.....see I personally tend to get caught up in the moment and then face the repercussions later lol. I try to put my hair up in a high ponytail or bun....and my satin pillowcase doesnt like to stay on the bed so its usually on the floor lol. How about satin sheets or at least egyptian cotton? Its smooth like butter!
 
Satin sheets, and I always mositurize before you know...and then I jump up and pretend to be using the bathroom....I'm doin' my hair though...oh well...gotta do what you gotta do.
 
rdm said:
or.....on all fours
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Yes, let him get it from behind, hold your head up and look pretty girl... Don't let him roll you over!!! LOL and when he starts pulling your hair YELL like the house is on fire....he'll get the hint :lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
ebonylocs said:
What is silk peptide powder? How do you use it?
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silk peptide powder is a blend of silk amino acids - I add it to my conditioner for a protein treatment. I've found that it makes my hair both soft and strong ending breakage when combined with a good moisturizer.
 
:lachen::lachen::lachen:Y'all are crazy........but I agree, a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do........my biggest problem is in the shower:blush::blush::blush:.........doing extra curricular activities in the shower means extra hair washing or conditioning or manipulation or whatever is necesary afterwards.:wallbash::wallbash::wallbash:. Thats my problem that i am yet to find a solution too. For now I say....Oh well:ohwell::ohwell:
 
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