NEED A HUG...I'M DOWN IN THE HAIR DUMPS

[honeybadgirl]

I started school recently so I have been very busy. I will drop you a line soon.[/quote

i'll be on the look out

 

[honeybadgirl]

I empathize with the fact that one achieves so much when one reaches a hair length goal. I also realize that my question may have some perceiving me as the devil incarnate, but...why be upset if the hair which was cut was damaged? Why would one want to hang on to damaged hair just to say that the hair is X length?

Help me to understand, please.

ok...i'm not upset about cutting damaged hair. i never got upset when my hair was cut. not since i was a young girl anyway. all i was upset about was the fact that now since i'm sitting here watching my hair grow and taking time to care for it to the best of ability AND saw great results, it was cut down. i was more upset with the process and time it took and then have it cut off in seconds!! like i said and will always say, its only hair but i was just in a moment of..what was it all for? i was down in the dumps but i feel totally better. i look forward to watching it grow grow grow....AGAIN!!!!

 

[honeybadgirl]

Alllll everything will be okay... We all had that feeling before and some are feeling that way right now... Group Hug

thank u babee!!!!

 

[honeybadgirl]

I'm proud of you for being open about this to us. My heart goes out to you. I went through the same thing a few months ago. My ends were damaged and my stylist who is normally not scissor happy went chopping away. She told me I needed a trim badly and asked me whether I wanted my hair evened out or layered. I told her I wanted which ever one resulted in the least amount of hair being cut. Ugh...she ended up layering it and chopped up to 2-3 inches in some areas. Boy was I HOT!!! It took me weeks to get over that chop. Every time I looked in the mirror I got so angry at her and wanted to cry looking at my hair. The good thing is that whenever I get my hair chopped it always seems to grow back faster. Look at my fotki "hair roller coaster" section and read it for the year of 2006. I'm wishing you all the best.

EXACTLY!!!! same scenario here. my stylist usually isnt scissor happy either.
thank you so much SoSo!!! (thats my nickname 4 u...) i will definitely check your fotki out!! you totally understand!!

 

[honeybadgirl]

innersoul and esquire....i know you're right and thanks so so much!!!!

 

[LadyZ]

I know the feeling, this happen to me over a year ago, I was like and I was , all my hard work gone in minutes, I love her dearly, but I never let her trim my hair again... I must say though, my hair grew back better and it was healthy, so rest assured your hair is now in the greatest shape ever and now you can grow, grow, grow, here is a Big... We have all been through it...

 

[honeybadgirl]

I know the feeling, this happen to me over a year ago, I was like and I was , all my hard work gone in minutes, I love her dearly, but I never let her trim my hair again... I must say though, my hair grew back better and it was healthy, so rest assured your hair is now in the greatest shape ever and now you can grow, grow, grow, here is a Big... We have all been through it...

awwww thank u lady!!!