MHM Hangout

[KiWiStyle]

Just goes to show that things work differently on everyone. I leave my bentonite on all night and my hair feels great. I bought some rhassoul mask and I leave that on overnight.

Yes, everyone's hair responds differently. Do you have course or fine hair?

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[HopefulOne]

Yes, everyone's hair responds differently. Do you have course or fine hair? Sent from my SM-N900V using LHCF

I have fine hair that is 3b when it is wet and shrinks to 3c. I like the weight of the clay on my hair after I rinse it. It makes my hair fell thicker.

 

[KiWiStyle]

I have fine hair that is 3b when it is wet and shrinks to 3c. I like the weight of the clay on my hair after I rinse it. It makes my hair fell thicker.

Type 4 hair is naturally much dryer than any other hair type so it makes since to me that your hair isn't responding the same with the extended application. I'm 4b and only 7 months post relaxer after 30 years so my hair is really dry already.

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[KiWiStyle]

Thanks for sharing. That's what I thought would happen to me. My Instinct was telling me no.

faithVA you're welcome. While I rinsed the clay out I could literally hear the dryness. I was always confused when people said their hair was wet but dry, it just didn't make since. Now I know exactly what they meant.

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[HopefulOne]

Type 4 hair is naturally much dryer than any other hair type so it makes since to me that your hair isn't responding the same with the extended application. I'm 4b and only 7 months post relaxer after 30 years so my hair is really dry already. Sent from my SM-N900V using LHCF

That is the beauty of the board, there are so many different hair journeys. I use MHM for tangles, some use it for definition, with adjustments it works for everyone.

 

[GGsKin]

faithVA you're welcome. While I rinsed the clay out I could literally hear the dryness. I was always confused when people said their hair was wet but dry, it just didn't make since. Now I know exactly what they meant.

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I experienced some of this wet dryness today

 

[KiWiStyle]

I experienced some of this wet dryness today

What caused yours? I'm going to hold off on the clay until Monday night and just cw until then to make sure I maintain moisture before stripping it out again. I'm really not sure how to correct it.

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[deborah11]

A couple of weeks ago I mentioned that I liked my hair definition and less tangles with the MHM method but I disliked my hair dryness. FaithVa suggested that I elimate the BS and clay to get my moisture level back and then individually introduce the BS and clay to see what happened. Thanks Faith because the last 3 washes I used the naturelle hair cleansing conditioner followed by deep conditioner and leave-in (all naturelle grow hair products). Thanks Faith for mentioning these products. Love them! Next wash, I am going to reintroduce the rhassoul clay to see how it works. I think I am going to elimate the BS except for the cherry lola treatment every 2-3 months. I am not too keen on the BS for some reason and right now it seems like my results are the same without it. I will keep you all posted on developments!

 

[KiWiStyle]

A couple of weeks ago I mentioned that I liked my hair definition and less tangles with the MHM method but I disliked my hair dryness. FaithVa suggested that I elimate the BS and clay to get my moisture level back and then individually introduce the BS and clay to see what happened. Thanks Faith because the last 3 washes I used the naturelle hair cleansing conditioner followed by deep conditioner and leave-in (all naturelle grow hair products). Thanks Faith for mentioning these products. Love them! Next wash, I am going to reintroduce the rhassoul clay to see how it works. I think I am going to elimate the BS except for the cherry lola treatment every 2-3 months. I am not too keen on the BS for some reason and right now it seems like my results are the same without it. I will keep you all posted on developments!

Thanks for this! I was seriously considering that maybe the clay is sufficient in cleansing my hair. I mean, I can use a cleansing conditioner like you mentioned for my step 1 and on occasion use the BS or ACV. I had been really trying to stick to the regimen as it is for a while. Maybe a month is long enough. We'll see.

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[deborah11]

Thanks for this! I was seriously considering that maybe the clay is sufficient in cleansing my hair. I mean, I can use a cleansing conditioner like you mentioned for my step 1 and on occasion use the BS or ACV. I had been really trying to stick to the regimen as it is for a while. Maybe a month is long enough. We'll see.

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I did 12 washes sticking to the MHM regime and the last couple of times I lost more hair because it was so dry and I begin th suspect it was caused by the BS or the clay. I am going to see what happens when I reintroduce the clay. I have now done 3 washes without any BS or clay. I think in the end we have to do what is best for our individual hair even when that requires modifying the MHM regime.

 

[KiWiStyle]

I did 12 washes sticking to the MHM regime and the last couple of times I lost more hair because it was so dry and I begin th suspect it was caused by the BS or the clay. I am going to see what happens when I reintroduce the clay. I have now done 3 washes without any BS or clay. I think in the end we have to do what is best for our individual hair even when that requires modifying the MHM regime.

Please keep us posted.

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[GGsKin]

What caused yours? I'm going to hold off on the clay until Monday night and just cw until then to make sure I maintain moisture before stripping it out again. I'm really not sure how to correct it.

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I've done 21 MHM washes now. It was my second time using the Trader Joe's conditioner with the BS and I dont think that conditioner has enough slip alone. I think this was the issue. Next time I will use ACV. I usually alternate between the ACV and BS for step one with no apparent issues. I did GHE for a week before this last wash. So far, I've lost a normal (for me) amount of shed hair for this period of time.

After the all-day-and-overnight DC my hair felt very soft. I'm currently letting a mix of rhassoul, bentonite, water, honey and cayenne pepper sit for a couple of hrs, so we'll see how this turns out.

 

[nycutiepie]

No. Occasionally MsDeeKay will do a review of a new product.

They should try to keep it updated. I'm a PJ and like to try new products but I'm only trying to use what's approved. I'm too lazy to research on my own

 

[nycutiepie]

I'm currently DC without heat with the Alikay Honey and Sage DC and it's the first time I'm using it. So far it looks like my hair has absorbed it which I think is a good sign. I think I'm going to try this NOW Morroccan Red Clay powder I've had for a while. I've only used Bentonite clay in the past and had good results so I don't want to screw anything up. I can't seem to find any results posted for anyone that's used the NOW Morroccan Red Clay but perhaps I will mix them and see what happens.

 

[KiWiStyle]

Y'all I'm addicted to the clay. I did another clay this morning for about an hour or so, I think I've reached a plateau because there were no notable results from the last two treatments. I'm considering going /cutting lower, when I went in for my last trim 3 weeks post BC, I realized later that she didn't take much off at all, she just shaped the edges and lined. I think scab hair is hiding my "real hair" and if this is my real texture on top, I'd rather find out now while I'm in a TWA and exploring than to wait until I have 6" plus.

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[GGsKin]

KiWiStyle Since finding this forum, I've read about this term 'scab hair'. How does this behave and look in comparison to the rest of your hair?

 

[GGsKin]

After washing out the clay, my hair felt really soft. I applied my leave-in in the shower and didn't squeeze out any excess. I diluted some KCCC about half and half with water and applied heavily. The majority of my hair is still wet. I'll give it a few more hours air drying until I'm ready to braid it up.

 

[KiWiStyle]

KiWiStyle Since finding this forum, I've read about this term 'scab hair'. How does this behave and look in comparison to the rest of your hair?

Its a controversial issue. I actually believe in the science behind it and believe I may have it. Its hair that grows in after you've stopped relaxing but isn't your "real natural texture" because the chemicals are still underneath the scalp and still produces damaged hair for upto 2 years depending on how long you've been chemically altered.

It is hair that is much drier, courser and grows straighter and wiry than it should. I have portions on my head that has this scab hair because the newer growth is softer, shinier, smoother and more coily. For some, it may just be the nature of their hair....but using clay to detox the scalp and hair may help you determine that sooner than later. Just Google it and you'll fine lots of information on it, some backed by science and some by people who have experienced it and have pictures to prove how the hair texture changed over time.

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[GGsKin]

^^^Yeah, I've read about it a few months ago when I first found this place. It's an interesting one. I think when my hair started getting hydrated at the ends, I almost convinced myself that my newly defined coily ends were scab hair . Thanks for your explanation.

 

[Guinan]

Its a controversial issue. I actually believe in the science behind it and believe I may have it. Its hair that grows in after you've stopped relaxing but isn't your "real natural texture" because the chemicals are still underneath the scalp and still produces damaged hair for upto 2 years depending on how long you've been chemically altered.

It is hair that is much drier, courser and grows straighter and wiry than it should. I have portions on my head that has this scab hair because the newer growth is softer, shinier, smoother and more coily. For some, it may just be the nature of their hair....but using clay to detox the scalp and hair may help you determine that sooner than later. Just Google it and you'll fine lots of information on it, some backed by science and some by people who have experienced it and have pictures to prove how the hair texture changed over time.

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I've never heard of scab hair. Thanks for the explanation. Very interesting. I think my mom might have this. She has been relaxing for 40+ yrs & has recently gone natural (almost natural) . The NG is coming in kindof wavy straight.

 

[KiWiStyle]

I CW tonight with diluted tressame naturals and applied diluted KCKT Leave in and then Shea Moisture Curl Enhancing Smoothie. My curls are popping! I didn't use the curling soufflé because I'm going to bed but I'll try it tomorrow on top the smoothie. I know its not approved but something had to give with this dry and dull hair.

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[Duchess007]

Curls after the latest round (one section):

 

[Smiley79]

I am so off track it's not even funny...I know I have to be past 7 days, smh. I've squeezed in a couple of cowashes in between that's not enough. I just haven't had the time to do all the steps. I'll try tonight.

 

[Cattypus1]

I think I'm finally beginning to see what max hydration looks and feels like on my head. I rarely use shampoo and only sulfate-free when I do. I'm loosely following the MHM because there is no way I could have ever done 7 days of the entire method. I'm pretty sure some of my products are not MHM approved but...my hair is a lot less tangly, I can finger part after cleansing. I can feel my curls/coils in the shower when wet and see them before I apply any product. My T4-something hair doesn't break as much any more and I can finger smooth it without a comb or brush while detangling. It is very springy when wet and as I apply my conditioner. I'm still struggling with styling and styling products. I really hate the snotty feel of KCCC and I don't want stiffness or crunch when dry. Any recommendations?

 

[aharri23]

I'm gonna try using a plastic cap for step 3. I've never tried it before.

 

[GGsKin]

I'm gonna try using a plastic cap for step 3. I've never tried it before.

I'm surprised. You've been doing MHM for a while, no? Do you let the clay get hard? How long do you usually leave yours on?

 

[GGsKin]

Sorry for the familiarity lol I swear I read the whole MHM thread on BHM

 

[Guinan]

I think I'm finally beginning to see what max hydration looks and feels like on my head. I rarely use shampoo and only sulfate-free when I do. I'm loosely following the MHM because there is no way I could have ever done 7 days of the entire method. I'm pretty sure some of my products are not MHM approved but...my hair is a lot less tangly, I can finger part after cleansing. I can feel my curls/coils in the shower when wet and see them before I apply any product. My T4-something hair doesn't break as much any more and I can finger smooth it without a comb or brush while detangling. It is very springy when wet and as I apply my conditioner. I'm still struggling with styling and styling products. I really hate the snotty feel of KCCC and I don't want stiffness or crunch when dry. Any recommendations?

Have u tried goddess curls botanical gelle? I absolutely love this stuff. I also like making my own FSG. It's the same recipe as others but i add peppermint oil to it for smell and stimulation

 

[Guinan]

I have my DC on & i don't plan on rinsing it out until Wednesday. I just don't feel like it. I plan on wearing a curly bang & a slapcap.

I think im gonna go back to using shea moisture shampoo. Cause after i do my ACV rinse my curls aren't as pronounced & its more frizzy. However after I complete the entire method my curls are popping & the frizz is alot better.

 

[aharri23]

I'm surprised. You've been doing MHM for a while, no? Do you let the clay get hard? How long do you usually leave yours on?

Yeah I've been doing MHM since April of 2014. I just never tried it. I hate spending money so I only use plastic caps if absoulutely needed and the original instructions said you didn't need to use a plastic cap. I'm trying it out today though and will see how it goes. I normally leave mine on 10-15 mins. The clay would get hard but not that hard to rinse off.