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I chuckled reading this. Sounds like your "Best Friend" is a bit of a hater. Don't read much into it. When I first started growing my hair out one of my closest friends was very standoffish about it. MBL later, she wants me to do her hair because quote, "She can't grow it like I can"
! Sometimes showing is wayyyyyyy better then telling.
a bottle of conditioner dropped on my toe last night...still hurts. i thought we had a good relationship, conditioner? i thought we were friends? i guess it's just all been lies.
i'm just gonna sit here and cry.
Girl you ain't never lie!
I had someone tell me recently that a) there is not such thing as moisture overload and b) that products made for natural hair penetrate the hair better so when I'm relaxed, the natural products will penetrate my deeper and won't agree with my relaxed hair. That I have to be careful when I use products for natural hair. Mind you, the product I bought specifically states is for natural and relaxed hair and I asked the lady in person about "her" product and she said "any good product will be for anyone's use!"
My hair will stay in my buns. When it has serious hang time, bet their tongues will be tied then!
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Right before I started my healthy hair journey, my hair was HORRIBLE. I looked like it did in my siggy, but with parts of hair that were longer. So basically, you could see through the strands right to my neck. Better yet, you could stick your head through the gaps and kiss my neck. My "friend" knew that I was really depressed about my hair and it really affected my self esteem. I has used to be APL, what happened? Anyway....we were hanging out one day and she kept whipping her SL hair back and forth and running her hands through her hair whenever she thought I was looking at her. I paid her no mind, but I was hurt that she would throw her healthy hair in my face. Fast forward to present time. Her hair is now shorter that my pic siggy and torn up from the floor up. Karma. I have no sympathies.
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did hairfinity change the texture of your hair?
I love my husband! He took time out if his day to help me take out this weave![]()
On a different note, I think this weave may have caused me a minor setback. My nape looks horrible!!
xu93texas I thought you weren't going back to Reniece till January 2014. I'm sorry to hear about your potential setback!
I read this three times and only on the last, did I get what you were saying. First I read that you were going to shave (like your legs) in the kitchen because your back was brokenI think I'm going to shave my kitchen. It's so bad and broken back there it's unreal.
I truly think about hair too much, I'm reading a book and it says you haven't touched your dessert and I read "you haven't touched your braidout" really?!!!
Hey lady, thanks for the concern![]()
I went to a stylist here in my area. I just wanted to get rid of the HIH syndrome. It wasn't worth it. Oh well, now I have to restart growing my nape again.
Giovanni Direct Leave In makes my hair dry and dull. I don't know why I keep trying to make myself like it. It does work great for shaving my legs tho, lol. Repurpose out this *****.
Not having a regimen is a problem. You won't see results in a month. If you go to a salon every 1-2 weeks what do is your regimen in between visits? I don't think it is complicated. I think you want instant results. Nothing is slower than watching your hair grow. Focus on hair health and a regimen and stick to it. Have certain expectations for your hair type and all over length. Your ends are tomorrow's length. Remember that damage isn't always instant, it can show up months later. Sometimes hair is slowly breaking when we think it isn't growing fast enough. Have you followed anyone that has big chopped? No matter what you do, whether you relax or go natural, the hair at the front and the top of you head won't be neck length for a long time. I think part of your issue is understanding how hair grows in from a bc vs a person that has not big chopped. Does your boyfriend like long hair? Has he given you a hard time about your hair?
It takes about a year and a few months for my sides to be neck length so around March I'll be fine. My crown takes forever.
My boyfriend prefers long hair. He wasn't happy at all when I BC shortly after we started dating, I. Mean I didn't like the BC very much either but for different reasons. Anyway I don't mind growing my hair out to full SL. I really don't want long hair. Just enough to ponytail without clips.
My dream would straight haired natural at full neck length or SL but I am scared of transitioning. I have severe anxiety so it's terribly difficult to stick to anything that's not already second nature for me.