Lilmama1011
Well-Known Member
Or is all hair versatile? I always hear BW say that our hair is versatile and I can't help but wonder isn't all hair versatile? I feel like one person said it and everyone just went along with it and keeps repeating it and never thought to question why is our hair the only hair to be versatile. Like I know our hair can be worn in a Afro, some of our hair with the right products can define our curls(going from kinky to defined curls), some of our hair is so kinky in order to have that defined look we have to use flexi rods and etc, and we can straighten our hair to be pin straight. But can't a WW or any other race do the same thing? They can go from pin straight hair, to curly hair, and also wavy hair which we can do as well. For the ones that think our hair is the only versatile hair, please explain to me, maybe it's something I'm missing....
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. I don't think I've ever heard curly haired, non-black people go on and on about how their hair's more versatile than everyone else's. It's just weird because this whole site, for example, is full of threads of curly and kinky haired ladies who have to twist their hair everynight to maintain their style, who's hair fros when they don't want it to, who can't get their hair straight, who have to keep it in PS because it'll break if they wear it down, etc. Being able to spend 5 hours twisting your hair maybe a sign of versatility, but I only put up with it if I feel like I have to. A lot of curly/kinky haired ladies aren't honestly thrilled that they have to prepoo, fingerdetangle, braid and unbraid their hair in sections, re-detangle and use the LOC method just to wash their hair even before styling it! My hair's lucky I can do wash n'gos because if it took all that, I would have returned to straight hair awhile ago
. And a lot of women relax their hair, ie. make it un/less curly, for the sake of versatility and manageability.
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. I think of it as more to do with how much time and effort does it take to execute an actual style (straight hair, an afro, french braid, etc). And bone straight type 1 hair and "bone straight" natural hair are not on the same level of straightness. Hence why there are type 1 ladies who still flatiron their hair, because to them it can get even straighter
. Going out of your way to describe just how awful it is and how it couldn't possibly be versatile.