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Have any one of you who have had a relaxer felt that it was doing physical harm to your, body aside from the usual burns?
I think having an informative conversation about the lack of conclusive evidence of any dangers of the effects of chemical relaxers on infants is a better place to start than to come to one"s own conclusions.... your initial statement was perhaps a misunderstanding, but for certain was misleading and doesn't address your desire to know "why" enough research hasn't been done.
One possible reason for the lack of research could be the percentages of "danger to one's health" doesn't pose a great enough threat.
@Spring - Perhaps but what would constitute enough of "danger to one's health" I wonder? As we all know its almost normal to suffer burns during a treatment. Why not research and develop a system that's less caustic?
RocStar - why did you need to go there? I understand freedom of speech but there was no need to be derogotary. You took this to a level that it didn't need to go to.
The things you say are merely a mirror of your own views of self.
All the same I am all about positivity so blessings.
Cherrypie - I agree that the post should have been tailored to be more sensitive. Whether you are natural or relaxed does not make anyone superior and nothing I've said has suggested otherwise. This forum is filled with posts by people with relaxed and natural hair trying to devised strategies to do the best they can to maximise the potential of their hair. Its tantamount to mass self help and its because up until now we were stuck at shoulder length hair that was thin and unhealthy. The traditional hair care methods were simply not working. It great to see us taking our hair into our own hands (pardon the pun) but IY hope with time that we can see ourselves as doing that together without the divide.
I read the original post--prior to the editing. The reason people feel the post was trollish is because in addition to misinterpreting the article, OP also added her editorial comments to include the whole pride/insecurity argument. That is what relaxed heads find insulting--the insistence of many naturals on suggesting that relaxed heads are somehow brainwashed because they choose to permanently alter their hair; instead of it simply being like any other styling choice.
I respect your views but why should it matter who started the thread, relaxed or natural or none of the above? I appreciate that someone who has natural hair posting something about relaxed hair may be viewed with some skepticism but I actually think that that observation is very worrying to say the least. Also it is flawed on a number of fronts. First, that commentary proceeds on the incorrect premise that that person has no experience of what it means to be relaxed. That’s not true as a point of note I’ve been relaxed more than I’ve been natural so have many others. Second, I have friends and family who are relaxed so I am clearly invested in their well being and health. Third, merely having relaxed or natural hair does not make one an expert on that kind of hair. Granted and I accept the post should have been redrafted to take into account the sensitivities of persons who are relaxed. This post was originally posted on my facebook page which is dedicated to encouraging naturals and those who are transitioning. But the remainder of the post was about why there was a lack of research into the dangers of chemical relaxers when the need for such research was plainly identified. I would have thought that our sister with relaxers would have a vested interest in the research community developing a product that is safer or at the very least getting to the bottom of what the risks are. A better safer product could lead to less damage and the ability to achieve length objectives. Certainly I did not anticipate the depth of the emotional responses, which by the why I find remarkably interesting. Also, what is this reference to “that community” we are all trying to figure out our strands together. The LHCF logo has 4 beautiful girls with a myriad of textures and shades standing next to each other. That stands for unity. It’s fantastic that you have done your research but I am not sure you can assume that everyone has done. Its all about sharing information and I for one would have no difficulty reading any post you may write about relaxed hair or heat damage in natural or relaxed hair.
p.s my last post was in response to the post EbonyCPrincess.
Taishan - Do I prefer natural hair? Yes. Do I think more women should go natural at least once in their lifetime? Yes, its remarkably liberating. Do I love to encourage women of colour to embrace all of themselves including their cottony curly coily kinky wonderful luscious hair? Absolutely. Am I a champion for natural hair? Unapologetically so. But this post wasn't and still is not about converting anyone to a "side". In my eyes we are all on the same side. Women, trying to appreciate and love ourselves, in a world which tells us we should not. I apologise if you felt I was trying to convert anyone. I am merely trying to raise awareness. That's all. As as simple as that. Just be cautious. Enjoy your hair! We are all fabulous (bit of a UN perspective but it is sincerely held).
... That aside, the post was intended to invite debate about why research about chemical relaxers was so wanting. Indeed a question was asked to which few answered. Sure, the article itself did not conclude that preterm birth etc was a consequence but it did point to resources that suggest the damaging effects. The article also recognised that there was simply not enough research and that such research was warranted. This was in 1999, and only recently was there a small book published called the Science of Black Hair by a wonderful lady trying to make her mark and give back. Then there was this incidence of the hair glue and black women suffering from hair loss and baldness, unable to reach length goals and becoming despondent and defeated. I personally think we deserve more. Someone said there are other things to worry about like heart disease and obesity but why should we have to choose? On a forum like this which is read by many but commented on by few I think it’s important that the message we send is a positive one.