Incognitus
Well-Known Member
I do think that when you're thinner it looks like you have more hair though.
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I do think that when you're thinner it looks like you have more hair though.
tapioca_pudding2 years ago, my life was meticulously planned out and it was going to be dang near perfect. Everything fell apart within a matter of weeks, and now I'm living a totally different life. Yesterday I was taking stock of everything, and was doing the, 'If this hadn't happened, I'd be here now, etc'. But the one thing that kept replaying in my head was, if everything hadn't have fallen apart, I would have never had the balls to go natural. And I freaking LOVE my natural hair. Lol crazy perspective.
@blackrose - steamers are divine!I really want to buy a steamer, but I've been spending too much lately. Maybe I'll wait 'til Christmas and buy it for myself as a gift.![]()
@tapioca_pudding
I really can relate to that. I had been wanting to BC for nearly a year but never had the guts to cut off my APL hair. After I had a break-up at the beginning of the year, I needed a new change and decided to self-BC randomly. I needed a distraction and to see myself in a new light......
so happy that bastid dumped me! Now i have a puff![]()
@lesedi and @tapioca_pudding - I'm sorry to hear of the bumps in the road but it seemed to have been blessings in disguise.2 years ago, my life was meticulously planned out and it was going to be dang near perfect. Everything fell apart within a matter of weeks, and now I'm living a totally different life. Yesterday I was taking stock of everything, and was doing the, 'If this hadn't happened, I'd be here now, etc'. But the one thing that kept replaying in my head was, if everything hadn't have fallen apart, I would have never had the balls to go natural. And I freaking LOVE my natural hair. Lol crazy perspective.
@cocosweet - I get this from time to time and use a protein conditioner as a leave-in (Millcreek Biotin) throughout the week and/or a protein reconstructor (SSI Okra) on wash day to help mitigate the problem. I try to keep my protein on schedule (every 2 weeks) so when I see the tiny pieces, I typically opt for Millcreek and then treat with my SSI Okra as scheduled.I've been noticing fewer short, broken pieces of hair when I wash or style it. Maybe I should use Aubrey GPB every week instead of once a month. Sunday was the second time I used it this month.
Feeling a bit natural hair discourage lately. I just don't know what I'm doing and I'm losing confidence in myself. I don't want to do anything drastic, but I really need to think things over.