relaxed with a natural state of mind...

[L.Brown1114]

is anyone else like this? I'm transitioning and i'm almost completely ignoring my relaxed hair. I'm afraid to BC because the last time I did I looked like a 10 year old boy but at the time, mentally, I wasnt ready. NOW it's taking energy not to pick up a pair of scissors and get to choppin.

idk what to do, transition or BC erplexed

 

[Roux]

I got that way toward the end. I was abusing the heck out of my relaxed ends.

 

[ellebelle88]

I just had a horrible experience with a long-term transition. Transitioning for too long didn't work out for me. I would suggest going ahead and doing the BC if you think you are ready for it.

 

[SheenaVee]

I felt that way too when I was transitioning.

 

[Dizz]

I hear you. I'm transitioning and neglecting my relaxed ends (what's left of them, anyway.) I'm 10 months post and only keeping them around so I can keep bunning. As soon as I can make my first puff, they are GONE.

 

[qchelle]

I hear you. I'm transitioning and neglecting my relaxed ends (what's left of them, anyway.) I'm 10 months post and only keeping them around so I can keep bunning. As soon as I can make my first puff, they are GONE.

OMG same here! I couldn't care less about my relaxed ends and I just abuse them babys for no reason I just need them to keep bunning. They're going at the beginning of June. That will be a year post for me

I actually wish I would've taken more care of them up until now so I could retain my max length and see how long it was. I think I'll start caring for them a little better now. Because I've gotten great growth...I'd like to see more length before I cut them off.

 

[glamazon386]

If you think you're mentally ready then do it. If not, put your hair away for a while and stop thinking about it.

 

[wednesday]

i would bc and if uncomfortable with the length put in some cute braids.

 

[*CherryPie*]

Just BC.

 

[chrisanddonniesmommy]

It sounds as though you really want to bc and just need an extra push.

Well, here's your push! Do it.