Irresistible
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I'm on to him now, he likes me thickened up some^^^^LOL at your man feeding you well! I'mma use that one from now on!![]()
Oh well, I've always loved your hair. I can't believe you are TBL now!


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I'm on to him now, he likes me thickened up some^^^^LOL at your man feeding you well! I'mma use that one from now on!![]()
Oh well, I've always loved your hair. I can't believe you are TBL now!
I'm on to him now, he likes me thickened up someI fell for the okie doke for a minute, *happy eating , happy soda drinking, happy weight* but nah I'm on a mission now to get back to where I need to be.......I see him making it harder, but I gotta be stronger
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@Nonie OK here are pictures of my first trim (BC 9/2007) and then 2 years later when I reached MBL (12/2009). As you can see my hair did grow, it was healthy, but it was uneven in Dec 2009 so that's why I cut it in Jan 2010. But for the most part I was able to retain lots of length for the 2 years and 3 months that I did not trim my hair.
First picture - Jan 2008 4 months after my BC
Sec picture - My curls 4 months after my BC
Third Picture - My hair a few minutes after I did the BC. I could not put it in a ponytail.
4th picture - My hair 2 years later
Haven't seen any fine-stranded ladies yet...
*sigh*
Oh well...
Hopefully some will chime in! I have a sort of similar plan to Charz... I S&D 2-3 times a year when I straighten but don't plan to do a full out trim til I get to MBL in December to even out my bottom layer. My ends definitely aren't even, but they aren't split or knotted either, so I'll just hope for the best.![]()
Today I saw a beautiful head of hair belonging to @Charz which I think she said is recent, showing full ends on a head that hasn't been trimmed for over a year. I was impressed but it got me wondering how many others are like that.
It would be inspiring for those who don't want to drink the Kool Aid I've been selling--imploring folks to trim/dust regularly for better retention--if folks who haven't trimmed in over a year answered these questions:
- Do you have coarse or fine strands?
- When was the last time you trimmed?
- How long was your hair after that trim or if you have never trimmed, how long was your hair a year or two ago?
- How long is your hair now?
- Please post two or more photos of your hair (preferably stretched or straightened) showing your hair's progress while on this regimen (Please date the before and after)
- What regimen do you use to protect your ends and keep them in good shape? (I just added this so folks who had to come back, you didn't omit any questions; I'm the one who's at fault for not putting it in in the first place. I beg your pardon.)
I know some folks do S&D and while I don't believe in it, I really just want those who haven't used scissors on their hair for over a year to take part. Even if your ends are a little thin, perhaps it's not as bad as I think, which will be very enlightening.
My hair thins so much if I go just 4 months w/o dusting so I think I'd look like I had a rat's tail if I went a year. I'm curious to see how others do.
Thanks in advance for your participation.
@kinkycurlygurl, nice progress. But I hafta say if you S&D at all--and you say you do it regularly--then you do trim and are not in the category of the folks I was asking for. In the OP I wrote in bold font that I was looking for people who don't even S&D. In other words, this thread is for people who haven't cut their hair at all in over a year.
Sorry, I think of a trim as something way more drastic than an S&D, but I see your point.![]()
Hey Nonie,
Here's my info:
# Do you have coarse or fine strands?
Coarse
# When was the last time you trimmed?
Completely trimmed every inch of my hair in 2007. I've done search and destroys since then. I did cut my ends last year (about 3 inches) but I didn't do a complete hair cut, just snipped the ends of my hair to achieve a blunt cut.
# How long was your hair after that trim or if you have never trimmed, how long was your hair a year or two ago?
In 2007 I did the BC and my transitioning hair was almost APL. I cut it down to neck length. 12 months later I was APL again.
# How long is your hair now?
Waist length
# Please post two or more photos of your hair (preferably stretched or straightened) showing your hair's progress while on this regimen (Please date the before and after)
First picture was taken 3 days ago (excuse the no make-up LOL) I rollerset with no heat. Second picture was taken in Dec. Third picture Jan 15th when I had my hair professionally blow dried.
I take care of my ends by keeping my hair in a bun at night. Any time I got tons of split ends was when I fell asleep with my hair loose.
ETA: When my hair was relaxed I hadto cut my hair every 6 months due to split ends. I think it was due to too much heat and no protective styling.
*CherryPie* WOW we do look alike!
BostonMaria, is your dad's name Alphonse? LOL! If so, text me later on so we can compare our family tree! Hahahaha!