Leeda.the.Paladin
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May I get a cliff notes OP? I will come back and skim this tomorrow. Nice to meet you Jayla. I hope you aren't being scared away by our answers. Everyone is in a jokey type mood. For the future, please keep your posts short, sweet, and under 500 words with plenty of big, clearly focused pictures of hair. Weez likes pitchers. Weez no likes tuh reed manee werds. Eet huts weez i's.
cliff notes edition:
OP is has been natural her whole 21 years of life. A couple of years ago she got a texturizer. she has always had growing hair but it would break off or she would cut it. her 1/2 indian stepmother used to take care of her 4c hair, and OP wished it could be softer and longer like hers. she went to africa when she was 10, and came back bald. later in life, she met a guy and started to show interest in her hair, and cut and dyed it for him, but he didnt like it, and the stress from their relationship really had a negative impact on her hair. one day she went to a stylist who ripped through her hair with a comb and complained about her hair and said she should relax it, and she ended up leaving the shop with burnt up hair and scalp. 3 weeks later her hair started breaking off where she was burned, and she decided to do some research and start a HHJ. as a relaxed natural, she is completely and totally relaxed about her hair being natural and everyone else’s being whatever they please.
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cliff notes edition:
OP is has been natural her whole 21 years of life. A couple of years ago she got a texturizer. she has always had growing hair but it would break off or she would cut it. her 1/2 indian stepmother used to take care of her 4c hair, and OP wished it could be softer and longer like hers. she went to africa when she was 10, and came back bald. later in life, she met a guy and started to show interest in her hair, and cut and dyed it for him, but he didnt like it, and the stress from their relationship really had a negative impact on her hair. one day she went to a stylist who ripped through her hair with a comb and complained about her hair and said she should relax it, and she ended up leaving the shop with burnt up hair and scalp. 3 weeks later her hair started breaking off where she was burned, and she decided to do some research and start a HHJ. as a relaxed natural, she is completely and totally relaxed about her hair being natural and everyone else’s being whatever they please.
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i did already:I want to read this and laugh but i'm going to be honest, this is pretty tl;dr. someone post a summary, lol
cliff notes edition:
OP is has been natural her whole 21 years of life. A couple of years ago she got a texturizer. she has always had growing hair but it would break off or she would cut it. her 1/2 indian stepmother used to take care of her 4c hair, and OP wished it could be softer and longer like hers. she went to africa when she was 10, and came back bald. later in life, she met a guy and started to show interest in her hair, and cut and dyed it for him, but he didnt like it, and the stress from their relationship really had a negative impact on her hair. one day she went to a stylist who ripped through her hair with a comb and complained about her hair and said she should relax it, and she ended up leaving the shop with burnt up hair and scalp. 3 weeks later her hair started breaking off where she was burned, and she decided to do some research and start a HHJ. as a relaxed natural, she is completely and totally relaxed about her hair being natural and everyone else’s being whatever they please.
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...Wait what? so is the OP relaxed or natural??
Is Op the Bonnet Lady???![]()
naw, i dont think so...good hurr is in bonnet girls genes because she got indian in her...she aint got no dang 4c hurr...![]()
I'm naturally relaxed.
Does that work?
I just... I cant...
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I'm naturally relaxed.
Does that work?
Is Op the Bonnet Lady???![]()
naw, i dont think so...good hurr is in bonnet girls genes because she got indian in her...she aint got no dang 4c hurr...![]()