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2themax

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....because I did a BC today. My ends were sooooooo split that my ends looked like a roller coaster and my hair was really thin. :ohwell: I got the courage and cut off 3." (I still need to cut off more, but I'm too much of a coward). Now for my own personal prayer:

Lord, :cry4: you know how much I obsess over my hair. I've wanted very long hair since I was a kid. :freakout: You know that! I been trying everything to get it to grow, but it just seems to have a mind of it's own and takes it's sweet ole time while everybody else's hair is growing. It was so hard to cut my hair today becuase it took so d*** long to grow it even to that length! Well I took the plunge and I'm asking you this; :imsorry: for cutting my hair :pulpdance: even after all the times I've asked you to speed up the growth. Don't take it personally. I just had to do it becuase I'd neglected it for so long and the only fast thing about my hair growth is that it was going (growing) nowhere fast. Now all I ask is that after you forgive me for cutting it, is that you make it grow quadruple times longer and I promise I won't cut it again (or try not to). Or if you're in a pretty good mood you can make it grow even faster than that. :yep: I'm just sayin.....:amen:
 
Well...if you look like your avatar then maybe you cut a lil' too much.

JNSQ, your hair looks great in your siggy!
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
What?!?!?!?!?!?!?
:lol: :lol: :lol:


Any pics? :)
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No way!!! It looks too bad right now! My DH saw me and said WTF?! Of course I just felt worse. But don't worry. I took photos of my hair just before I cut it and immediately after I cut it. I'll show the pics when it looks half-way decent again. Thanks for asking. I know pics say a lot more than words.
 
It will be okay. Promise. I experienced 2 major setbacks in the last 9 months each time I had to cut inches for the same reason. Your hair will thank you for it.
 
lol!!!!

Congrats all the same.....i'm terrified of trimming my disgusting ends (i know i should) but i really want to see some more length so i understand how you feel.
 
fmnnity said:
It will be okay. Promise. I experienced 2 major setbacks in the last 9 months each time I had to cut inches for the same reason. Your hair will thank you for it.
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Thanks for that inspiration fmnnity!

Wow! 2 setbacks? How is your hair doing now? Has it grown back very much or a little? (No pics necessary - I'll take your word for it). No sense in adding insult to injury. :nono:
 
We want pics!!!!

Congratulations. I'm sure it looks beautiful and you will never know how beautiful unless you allow us to tell you.
 
Hopefull everything loads up ok. My "after" pic should be in my signature. By the way, I had to cut off some more of my ends and I STILL have to trim evenmore to get it completely even.
 
Sheesh! I mean u busted out a whole prayer about having to cut your hair..I would have atleast expected 1 picture :nono: I'm sorry to have to do this to you but...

:needpics:

:look:


But I'm sure your hair will thank you in the end :)
 
^^ I was going to post the same thing!! I wanna see! :lachen:

I'm sure you look nice and your hair will be wonderful!
 
Adaoba2012 said:
Sheesh! I mean u busted out a whole prayer about having to cut your hair..I would have atleast expected 1 picture :nono: I'm sorry to have to do this to you but...

:needpics:

:look:


But I'm sure your hair will thank you in the end :)
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Uh, are we on the same page? My pics are posted (in this response as well as a few responses above this one). ....???? The pic in the upper part of this message is what my hair "looked" like.......The pic in my signature (below) is what it now "looks" like and I still have to do some trimming. A couple of months ago, my hair had finally acquired some length. (Still wasn't as long as my sisters' but oh well...) Then I got it relaxed for the first time and lost a couple of inches because the relaxer was too strong. Then it became VERY dry and brittle and began to split. Because my hair was so thick, that d*** hairdresser used extra strength relaxer on my hair. Seems like it continued to break off in handfuls. So I got frustrated and started cutting. It kept breaking off so I kept cutting to try and keep it even. I still have to cut another inch or two for it to be completely even. My sisters' have never had their hair relaxed and had told me not to do it, but I didn't listen. Oh how I wish I had. I'll never get it relaxed again!
 
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2themax said:
Thanks for that inspiration fmnnity!

Wow! 2 setbacks? How is your hair doing now? Has it grown back very much or a little? (No pics necessary - I'll take your word for it). No sense in adding insult to injury. :nono:
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It has rebounded quite nicely AND it's at its healthiest. I have accepted the fact that I have to at least dust my ends every eight weeks or so. I just haven't figured out how to get around it. I only use heat twice a year and seal before bunning yet I always have split ends. Anyway, I had to chop some last April and then more in October. It is now longer than when I chopped in April so that's why I say that I know you will be okay.
 
fmnnity said:
It has rebounded quite nicely AND it's at its healthiest. I have accepted the fact that I have to at least dust my ends every eight weeks or so. I just haven't figured out how to get around it. I only use heat twice a year and seal before bunning yet I always have split ends. Anyway, I had to chop some last April and then more in October. It is now longer than when I chopped in April so that's why I say that I know you will be okay.
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You are TRULY an inspiration to me!!:yep: Because of you I know that I'll dust my ends now that I seem to have no other choice. I don't think there is any way around it:nono: I used to be so scared to trim my hair for fear that I would just lose length, but now I can see that it's crucial. Maybe this relaxer thing taught me a thing or two. But still, no more relaxers for me - I'm too chicken.

By the way. Who's the little boy in your siggy? He's a doll, just resting peacefully. I remember when my son, "used to" rest peacefully.
 
2themax said:
You are TRULY an inspiration to me!!:yep: Because of you I know that I'll dust my ends now that I seem to have no other choice. I don't think there is any way around it:nono: I used to be so scared to trim my hair for fear that I would just lose length, but now I can see that it's crucial. Maybe this relaxer thing taught me a thing or two. But still, no more relaxers for me - I'm too chicken.

By the way. Who's the little boy in your siggy? He's a doll, just resting peacefully. I remember when my son, "used to" rest peacefully.
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Thanks. That is my nephew. He is the light of my life, my little angel. He was at my house and didn't want to go to his room to take a nap. So he decided that he would sit on the stairs where he could keep an eye on me. He was fighting sleep that day and as you can see sleep won.
 
2themax said:
No way!!! It looks too bad right now! My DH saw me and said WTF?! Of course I just felt worse. But don't worry. I took photos of my hair just before I cut it and immediately after I cut it. I'll show the pics when it looks half-way decent again. Thanks for asking. I know pics say a lot more than words.
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I'm sorry...after you posted this I assumed that there weren't any pics. I don't know how I would have figured out that ur before and after pics were your teeny avi and siggy *kanye shrug*
 
Adaoba2012 said:
I'm sorry...after you posted this I assumed that there weren't any pics. I don't know how I would have figured out that ur before and after pics were your teeny avi and siggy *kanye shrug*
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No need for any apologies. You just made me feel reeeeeeally bad that's all...........(kidding). Anyway, I hope your HHG journey is successful and please be careful about what people do to your hair.
 
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