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pattyr5

pattyr5

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Has anyone ever pulled off your hair piece??? I am a proud wearer of half wigs, phonies and falls and whenever people ask about my hair I tell them. I am not ashamed....the hair on my head looks good and those are just for convenience and protection....

So today I told someone that I was wearing a pony and he pulled it off my head... along with ripping at my own hair since it was secured with some bobby pins. I was so pissed!! I felt like cursing people out, but I maintained my dignity and composure. Still, this was foul, and ugly!! Do y'all just say it's your hair and change subjects or what? It's like whenever I do say it's a hair piece people want to start getting all grabby. There's nothing funny about pulling it off someones head...such a jerk!!! I think the next time I just may not be so dignified!
 
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Who???? What!!!!

Someone pulled your ponytail off of your head...:badidea:

Nope never experienced that. I'm 25 years old.. (aka grown) and I wish a nicca would.
 
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Honesty, I would've been mortified, then slapped him.

Seriously, your a grown man, what makes you think you can just touch and pull without permission for?

So childish.
 
did he needed proof that you were wearing a phony pony? Cuz I don't know why a grown a$$ man need to pull on a a woman's hair like he is a child. Anyways you handled that with class pattyr5, cuz the wrong chick would have him in a bodybag :lachen: for that stunt he pulled:yep:
 
you handled yourself better than I would I can't stand when people rip out my real hair, when ever they offer to comb my hair, or want to touch it or what ever. It just really gets my blood going. I would have told him off, and not to *beeping* put his hands on me. Yeah I would have lost it, friend or not. Don't touch my hair. I don't grab your balls, to me its the same thing.
 
When people compliment my hair, I say thanks and keep it moving. I wear wigs as a protective style to work/school.


What you described is beyond disrespectful and I am hoping this did not happen in front of a crowd.
 
I didn't want to get stupid at my place of work, but TRUST ME when I say I wanted to hurt him. I can't imagine why he thought it was so damn funny. I would never try to humiliate a person like that. Some men really need to grow up and learn how to interact with ladies.
 
He sounds like an idiot. I would be sure to keep my distance with him. Everything would be purely professional. I'm mad for you!
 
Definitely inappropriate touching by a coworker. Next time you admit to wearing a hair piece make it clear that the person doesn't get to touch. Or ... maybe in this environment it's better to just say its your hair. People think negatively about women who deny that they have extensions ... but there are some reasons why it's easier not to admit to it and your post illustrates this.
 
pattyr5 said:
Has anyone ever pulled off your hair piece??? I am a proud wearer of half wigs, phonies and falls and whenever people ask about my hair I tell them. I am not ashamed....the hair on my head looks good and those are just for convenience and protection....

So today I told someone that I was wearing a pony and he pulled it off my head... along with ripping at my own hair since it was secured with some bobby pins. I was so pissed!! I felt like cursing people out, but I maintained my dignity and composure. Still, this was foul, and ugly!! Do y'all just say it's your hair and change subjects or what? It's like whenever I do say it's a hair piece people want to start getting all grabby. There's nothing funny about pulling it off someones head...such a jerk!!! I think the next time I just may not be so dignified!
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My first reaction to your post was

:blush::blush::blush:

Girl I would have slapped him down...


I don't like when no one touch my real hair or my weaves. When his hand was headed for your head you should have slapped his hand back.​
 
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pattyr5 said:
I didn't want to get stupid at my place of work, but TRUST ME when I say I wanted to hurt him. I can't imagine why he thought it was so damn funny. I would never try to humiliate a person like that. Some men really need to grow up and learn how to interact with ladies.
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You got to be kidding me, it happen at work???
 
I would have slapped him and said it was a reflex action.

I'm sorry that happened. that's why if people say something about my hair, I say thanks and KIM
 
The man assaulted you. He did not have permission to touch you and he used force.

Sorry but this man stepped way over the line and he got away with it too lightly. I just hate abuse of personal space.
 
pattyr5 said:
I didn't want to get stupid at my place of work, but TRUST ME when I say I wanted to hurt him. I can't imagine why he thought it was so damn funny. I would never try to humiliate a person like that. Some men really need to grow up and learn how to interact with ladies.
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:wallbash: oh no he did that at work! I would go straight to corprate, or human resources. :nono: I'm sure you would have caught hell if you slapped off his toupe. Don't take that:nono And don't let them roll over you like it was not a big deal. What is he going to do next, rip your clothes off? Seriously.
 
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Please tell us:
...what he did after he was standing there with your hair in his hand
...how he acts with you tomorrow
...if he is profusely apologetic

This is beyond acceptable. Please do report him.
 
This is so disturbing! What is wrong with the world today??? Wigs, pony's, weaves, and other false hair is extremely personal. Thats like asking to see someone's dentures, piercings, or heck...even underwear and ripping it off of them!!!!!!! Can't people just say, "Your hair looks nice like that" and call it a day? Sheesh! I think it is rude when people even ASK if thats your real hair! SMDH

The world is a sad, sad place if these kinds of things are happening and ADULTS are doing it...
 
Thank you ladies for your advice....the truly sad part of the story is that this was my boss who did this (one of them) and there is no HR department to report this to since we are a small business. I have to say that my reaction was slow and controlled because this happened to me before. That first time it was an uncle who did it and I did tell him how I felt and I was told that I couldn't take a joke and nobody can play with me because I take things too seriously. So as long as some of you think it was wrong, I can at least know that I am not out of my mind or too sensitive for not liking it!!
 
pattyr5 said:
Thank you ladies for your advice....the truly sad part of the story is that this was my boss who did this (one of them) and there is no HR department to report this to since we are a small business. I have to say that my reaction was slow and controlled because this happened to me before. That first time it was an uncle who did it and I did tell him how I felt and I was told that I couldn't take a joke and nobody can play with me because I take things too seriously. So as long as some of you think it was wrong, I can at least know that I am not out of my mind or too sensitive for not liking it!!
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Damn right you don't have to like it! thats just like him slapping someones boobs, or ripping of their shirt because they got breast impants. That isn't a joke, and its not funny. It is degrading. You just don't do that. People don't snatch purses, and shoes because they are knockoffs. Idk there has to be someone you can talk to, it is still harrasment, maybe you can talk to a lawyer, you usually don't have to pay to talk to them. But in those types of situations it usually gets worse. IF you don't want to take it to that level, talk to him personally. in his office and say you don't like what he did, and tell him to keep his hands off you. Even if he was joking, you are at work, not his house.
 
pattyr5 said:
Thank you ladies for your advice....the truly sad part of the story is that this was my boss who did this (one of them) and there is no HR department to report this to since we are a small business. I have to say that my reaction was slow and controlled because this happened to me before. That first time it was an uncle who did it and I did tell him how I felt and I was told that I couldn't take a joke and nobody can play with me because I take things too seriously. So as long as some of you think it was wrong, I can at least know that I am not out of my mind or too sensitive for not liking it!!
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He was completely out of line. That was not cool & I'm sorry your uncle made you feel like you were the problem. Nobody has the right to invade your personal space.

What on earth would make a grown man yank someone's ponytail off?!? :nono:
 
I say talk to an attorney that specializes in employment law...if he has a small business, he ought to know that he can't AFFORD to harass people. One lawsuit and he could be out of business...common sense is rare these days
 
All I can say is wow :blush: That is one of the main reasons why I don't wear wigs or ponies (not trying to dog you out OP, it's a great PS like we all know :yep:). I probably would have sh!t myself and then slapped him (using the good ol' reflex excuse) if that happened to me. You restrained yourself well.
 
Are your other bosses the same? Can one of them intervene for you? Either way I think this is one of those moments in life when you have to stand up for yourself. You do not have to tolerate this type of behavior. I think this an opportunity for you to grow into your own and become a stronger, don't even think about messing with me type of woman. Please stand up for yourself. Your boss and your uncle are bullies, but you are not a little girl on a schoolyard, you are a grown woman, you can handle this:yep:. Curse him out, set him straight professionally, enlist the support of the other bosses, hire an attorney, just do something...do not let this slide.
 
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