I was just sitting in class today looking at all the white girls, and most of them have bsl hair or apl hair. I figured it out, a lot of black men love white women and other races because of their hair nothing else that's it. We have beautiful facial features and age beatuiful, and we also have nice bodies that they would die for, so the only thing that black women are lacking is the length and health of their hair. I get a lot of men tryin to date me now because i'm natural and they think i'm mix with something because my hair was curly, my question is why can't black women have nice hair, why do i have to be mix, iam 100% black and nothing else and proud of it.... Men are fascinated with hair and that's why they love them nothing else, point blank, but with more black women joining lhcf they will be back on our jock like they were in the past......... So why do you think they love these other races and puting them on the map, but putting us down, saying we have attitudes and we're alwasys wearing weaves?
I think hair is part of of but definetly not the ONLY reason that black men seem to be flocking to non-black women.
yes, I know that there are a lot of other reasons, but I know hair is a concern for black men
Cosigning with what the rest of these ladies have said. Its not just the hair. In the words of some of my guy friends who have dated many-a-white-women though, its also just them having different personalities. TBH, white women are just "willing." Jump, and they ask how high kinda thing. Its rare that you find a white woman with an attitude like a sista I'm NOT saying thats a bad thing though. Different strokes for different folks is all.
Wait... black men like you cuz you got "good hair" like white people? Well Ill eb damned! I bet you light skinndeded too! I guess I better load up on the weave and bleaching cream.
What? That has to be the rudest thing to say about someone, that someone is dating them b/c of their hair. How about intelligence, conversation, kindness, great companionship and those things. I mean white women are not dumb blondes and it is rude to assume or insinuate so.
They like white women for the same reason they like black women or any other women for that matter.
Would you like it if someone said "That white man with you for your hair!" Like you have nothing else to offer any body. SMDH!
please, now less be real, men are physical in nature, the personality comes afterwards, they first have to see you and men do love hair and most black women do have jacked up hair, just look in the streets, I wasn't tryting to be rude, and i didn't say that they were dumb blondes, I have a lot of white friends and most of them have long hair and men like long hair that's all I was saying........
Men are silly--brothas, in particular.
Hair has little to do with it. A part of it is novelty.
But in any case, black men are just lost. Half of them are so brainwashed they don't know what to do with themselves...
Evidence by the fact that many can't just date a non-black woman because they, y'know...LIKE them. It almost ALWAYS has to do with some baggage concerning black women.
"Black women are too (insert complaint here)..."
And that is my problem.
Date who you want--but STOP projecting all of your issues onto 'US'. It's not the fault of black women that you can't form a quality relationship with a woman. Hell--I don't even know you...
In any case, I'd only noticed a lot of IR dating in areas where there wasn't enough black folks to go around. Also non-black men are as interested in black women. Black women are mostly just reluctant to go there. Many would rather stay in the harem constructed by brothas and wait anxiously while bruhs go sex the colors of the rainbow.
Like 92% of bruhs end up with sistas compared with what 95% fo black women...and sistas ain't that far off from brothas when it comes to IR unions. There's a 'Somehting New' movement going on, didn't you know? (lol)
From statistics only 16% of IR marriages are made up from Black men and White women...
So...you be the judge.
I don't see why anyone cares?
1. Almost everyone on here seems to be attached so it ain't like anyone has a problem getting a man much less a brothas attention.
2. It ain't like the nonblacks are getting QUALITY (least not from what I've seen in my travels).
I see more non-black babymamas these days then a little bit...
So a white women can't get a quality black man? SMDH!