ok, ladies. this is the day /images/graemlins/grin.gif! i'm on my way to pick up my sister and visit sally's beauty supply. i am to ONLY buy the jilbere /images/graemlins/tongue.gif. i really need to know what i should use on my hair before pressing. mind you, my hair hates and falls with oils. i need something lite that will condition. please help. i have a superbowl party to attend.