Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
....but when it comes to "us" as black women, people get all up in arms or act funny if you want to wear your hair natural? This aggravates me to no end!
I've been seriously thinking about going natural lately, and so I've been doing quite a bit of research online, in books, asking friends who are natural, etc. The one thing that bothers me the most is that it seems like when it comes to "us" going natural, people seem to act like you've committed one of the seven deadly sins or something!! I keep reading on message boards how our fellow black sisters are being treated and ridiculed for wearing their natural hair, especially by some (*SOME*) black men who (by the way) have the SAME exact hair growing out of their OWN freakin' scalps themselves! People always want to talk about our hair like it's making some kind of "statement". Ummmm....no, how about I'm just growing my REAL hair?
UGh.....it's just really disheartening. Other women (white, asian, hispanic, indian, etc) can all wear their natural hair and have it grow healthy and long w/out the use of chemicals (if they chose) and nobody says a PEEP! But let a black woman do this, and oh boy....you would think World War 3 has started.
Okay....I'm done with my vent... *sigh* I just don't get it. I mean, when you look at it abstractly, why would people want to deter or discourage you from wearing the hair that naturally grows from your scalp? Have we been that conditioned in society to think that our hair is so "ugly", "difficult to manage", etc that we can't even be happy for one another when one makes the decision to stop putting harsh chemicals in their hair?
I've been seriously thinking about going natural lately, and so I've been doing quite a bit of research online, in books, asking friends who are natural, etc. The one thing that bothers me the most is that it seems like when it comes to "us" going natural, people seem to act like you've committed one of the seven deadly sins or something!! I keep reading on message boards how our fellow black sisters are being treated and ridiculed for wearing their natural hair, especially by some (*SOME*) black men who (by the way) have the SAME exact hair growing out of their OWN freakin' scalps themselves! People always want to talk about our hair like it's making some kind of "statement". Ummmm....no, how about I'm just growing my REAL hair?
UGh.....it's just really disheartening. Other women (white, asian, hispanic, indian, etc) can all wear their natural hair and have it grow healthy and long w/out the use of chemicals (if they chose) and nobody says a PEEP! But let a black woman do this, and oh boy....you would think World War 3 has started.
Okay....I'm done with my vent... *sigh* I just don't get it. I mean, when you look at it abstractly, why would people want to deter or discourage you from wearing the hair that naturally grows from your scalp? Have we been that conditioned in society to think that our hair is so "ugly", "difficult to manage", etc that we can't even be happy for one another when one makes the decision to stop putting harsh chemicals in their hair?
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