Crystalicequeen123
Well-Known Member
Okay, I just have to vent....'tis all!
Is it just me, or do any of you other Christian ladies notice a trend when it comes to Christian men?? I call it the "Good guy"/"Bad Girl" syndrome. Sort of like the "Bad Boy"/"Good Girl" phenomenon.
Idk...I've just noticed (especially lately) that a lot of good "Christian" men end up dating or even marrying women who are not Christians, or who don't behave in Christian-like manners.
I don't know if it's because these women seem more "exciting" or alluring to them, or if it's simply because those types of women tend to have more ahem..."experience" in life , but it's just something I've noticed.
I mean, it's quite frustrating actually, because here you have some women who really want to marry a God-fearing man, and yet it seems like the God-fearing men want a different type of woman. I mean, it's already hard enough to find a black man....and to find one who is Christian and worships regularly is even harder! *sigh* It's just kind of discouraging sometimes....
Anyway...rant off! Is it just me?? Or....maybe it's just my area...
Is it just me, or do any of you other Christian ladies notice a trend when it comes to Christian men?? I call it the "Good guy"/"Bad Girl" syndrome. Sort of like the "Bad Boy"/"Good Girl" phenomenon.
Idk...I've just noticed (especially lately) that a lot of good "Christian" men end up dating or even marrying women who are not Christians, or who don't behave in Christian-like manners.
I don't know if it's because these women seem more "exciting" or alluring to them, or if it's simply because those types of women tend to have more ahem..."experience" in life , but it's just something I've noticed.
I mean, it's quite frustrating actually, because here you have some women who really want to marry a God-fearing man, and yet it seems like the God-fearing men want a different type of woman. I mean, it's already hard enough to find a black man....and to find one who is Christian and worships regularly is even harder! *sigh* It's just kind of discouraging sometimes....
Anyway...rant off! Is it just me?? Or....maybe it's just my area...