I have not had a relaxer since December 21,2004 I am not transitioning but since the 8th week I have been wearing cornrows,a sew in weave or a combination of both. what has been the experience of those who have done this? When I have removed the braids I had no problems but I had a little issue with the sew in because I think I left it in to long so there was lots of matting but I still gained a good amount of length. I figured since I wasnt going to have my hair out anyway why relax. Am I right in thinking this way? I was trying to hold out until September to relax. thx in advance for any replies.


I've heard horror stories about it thinning and damaging your hair. Some say it's all about how you care for your real hair when wearing one. How should you care for your hair underneath?
If you do this, remember to wash/condition/deep condition (and protein treat, as necessary) your own hair once a month. make sure your hair (the braids) are always moisturized. I found it difficult to ensure my hair was moisturized enough without it getting matted.