Hello Ladies. I know everyone's hair is different, but how would you fill in this sentence: "Everyone should at least try to stretch____weeks after a relaxer." I'm asking this because my longest stretch has been 12 weeks. As thick as my hair is growing in now, thanks to you ladies, I know better than to try that now! My last stretch was ten weeks. I am now at 9 weeks and I am struggling. (I have a large patch of coiled hair covering my scalp.) So should I try to surpass a certain amount of time before considering a re-touch? Or should you simply relax when you see a major difference in the textures, like what I'm seeing now?