Addy3010
Well-Known Member
Just thought i would share a funny (to me anyway)...story. This goes out to all the people who are talking about bc, bc-depression,anxiety or just plain out compliments on hair.
Ever since i bc- to a fade, i recieved alot of compliments on how i looks so nice, and how it suits my face, and alot of "you should be a model" anyway. I have been really happy about having short hair, because i always wanted that Jada Pinkett (back in the day) pixie look. Just a lil background my hair was not in bad shape or anything before i chopped i just wanted to go natural and i decided to chop now instead of later.
Anyway i been loving this short almost do nothing hair. Been loving the attention i been recieving, and the stares. ( I decide all that stare are admires:
)
Now that my hair is growing out to a premature afro
i have been experiencing the SIR phenomena (sp). Atleast once a week i have been called sir! Mostly at work, where everyone where's the same uniform, and once in the store wearing a clearly feminine outfit and make up. Today at work i was approached from the back by some woman. She was a distance away and kept yelling SIR, SIR SIR. I was like i know she's not talking to me so i didnt turn around, until she got real close. Then when i turned around, she looked like someone slapped her face. 
Im started to wonder how "manly" i look. Im tall but petite, and if i saw a man that looked like me i would think he had sugar in his tank, or something.
Long story short. I love my short hair and would take being called SIR once a week any time over looking a hot mess!
So to all those who have anxiety about big chopping or anything like it, just hold your head up and flaunt it.
Good day, Sir
Ever since i bc- to a fade, i recieved alot of compliments on how i looks so nice, and how it suits my face, and alot of "you should be a model" anyway. I have been really happy about having short hair, because i always wanted that Jada Pinkett (back in the day) pixie look. Just a lil background my hair was not in bad shape or anything before i chopped i just wanted to go natural and i decided to chop now instead of later.
Anyway i been loving this short almost do nothing hair. Been loving the attention i been recieving, and the stares. ( I decide all that stare are admires:
) Now that my hair is growing out to a premature afro
i have been experiencing the SIR phenomena (sp). Atleast once a week i have been called sir! Mostly at work, where everyone where's the same uniform, and once in the store wearing a clearly feminine outfit and make up. Today at work i was approached from the back by some woman. She was a distance away and kept yelling SIR, SIR SIR. I was like i know she's not talking to me so i didnt turn around, until she got real close. Then when i turned around, she looked like someone slapped her face. Im started to wonder how "manly" i look. Im tall but petite, and if i saw a man that looked like me i would think he had sugar in his tank, or something.Long story short. I love my short hair and would take being called SIR once a week any time over looking a hot mess!
So to all those who have anxiety about big chopping or anything like it, just hold your head up and flaunt it.
Good day, Sir
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