I'm sorry...you guys may have seen this a million times, but it was sooo powerful for me that I have to include in this post.
Excerpt from SSlick:
When relaxers are rinsed out of the hair, the active creme passes over previously relaxed ends and starts to work on them in a process I like to call "chemical run." This type of damage to the ends happens as a result of not protecting the ends during the relaxing process. Depending on how often you are relaxing (lets say every 8 weeks), this happens to your ends every 8 weeks. Each time this process occurs, the cuticle becomes more and more degraded resulting in thinner (and in some people, redder) looking ends. The best way to guard against this type of thinning is to coat the ends in an oil or conditioner prior to relaxing. When you rinse your relaxer, your ends will be shielded against further chemical exposure.
Sista this is priceless!! Going forward I will NEVER relax w/o applying oil - really midway all the way through the ends.
Thanks, Thanks and THANKS