Moisture2608
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Last week I visited a new stylist that I have never been to before. The reason I chose her was because she's the only one in my area that carries some UBH products that I like. So, I figured I'd try her out on my hair since she actually uses the UBH products in her salon.
Now, let me give you a little background about my hair ~~ In August 2007, I cut my hair completely off; I mean all of it. Before I cut it, it was about at ear length and it had some damage. When I cut it, I was basically bald. I figured I'd start all over and told myself that this time when my hair starts growing, I'd be more wise with it; It's very dry so I knew I'd have to baby it.
During this time (Aug. 2007 to April 2008) I have been just deep conditioning my hair and moisturizing it. I haven't put in any chemicals in it at all.
Sorry that I don't have any pictures, yet!!
So, last month ~ 8 months after I completely chopped my hair off, my hair was of course in it's natural 4b state. So, I had an engagement that I had to attend, so I put a mild relaxer in it just to get my hair to "sit down" a little bit. I didn't leave it in long, and frankly, I probably didn't even apply it right. Anyway, I found that I my hair had grown ALOT. I went from being "bald" to neck length hair! That's a lot of growth for me.
Since the time that I've put the home relaxer in my hair, I've been searching for a place to get a "real" relaxer, but also a place that actually CARES about hair. So, when I found this salon in my area that sells UBH products, I decided to go to her for my hair. But, I decided that I wouldn't let her put a relaxer on my hair during my first visit.
So, last week, I went in and really was just there to check her out. I asked to just get a wrap... well, the best she can do with a wrap, considering that my hair is basically in its virgin state (since my home relaxer was not applied properly). So, during my visit at this salon, the stylist informed me that my ends are very dry (which I figured). Then she said that next time when I come to get my relaxer, she's either going to have to CUT my dry ends off or relax them out. She actually had mentioned cutting my ends a few times during my visit!!!! And, it's funny that she never mentioned that I had split ends (which I probably do); she just kept saying how dry my ends are.
I really don't want my hair cut, trimmed, etc.....yet! In June, when I get my relaxer, I just want a relaxer. Plus, since I don't know this lady very well, I don't want her cutting on my hair.
My appointment is in a couple of weeks, and I'm starting to have second thoughts. I really believe that this stylist is going to insist on cutting my dry ends off, and not follow my wishes.
What do you all think? Should I go back to this stylist?
Now, let me give you a little background about my hair ~~ In August 2007, I cut my hair completely off; I mean all of it. Before I cut it, it was about at ear length and it had some damage. When I cut it, I was basically bald. I figured I'd start all over and told myself that this time when my hair starts growing, I'd be more wise with it; It's very dry so I knew I'd have to baby it.
During this time (Aug. 2007 to April 2008) I have been just deep conditioning my hair and moisturizing it. I haven't put in any chemicals in it at all.
Sorry that I don't have any pictures, yet!!
So, last month ~ 8 months after I completely chopped my hair off, my hair was of course in it's natural 4b state. So, I had an engagement that I had to attend, so I put a mild relaxer in it just to get my hair to "sit down" a little bit. I didn't leave it in long, and frankly, I probably didn't even apply it right. Anyway, I found that I my hair had grown ALOT. I went from being "bald" to neck length hair! That's a lot of growth for me.
Since the time that I've put the home relaxer in my hair, I've been searching for a place to get a "real" relaxer, but also a place that actually CARES about hair. So, when I found this salon in my area that sells UBH products, I decided to go to her for my hair. But, I decided that I wouldn't let her put a relaxer on my hair during my first visit.
So, last week, I went in and really was just there to check her out. I asked to just get a wrap... well, the best she can do with a wrap, considering that my hair is basically in its virgin state (since my home relaxer was not applied properly). So, during my visit at this salon, the stylist informed me that my ends are very dry (which I figured). Then she said that next time when I come to get my relaxer, she's either going to have to CUT my dry ends off or relax them out. She actually had mentioned cutting my ends a few times during my visit!!!! And, it's funny that she never mentioned that I had split ends (which I probably do); she just kept saying how dry my ends are.
I really don't want my hair cut, trimmed, etc.....yet! In June, when I get my relaxer, I just want a relaxer. Plus, since I don't know this lady very well, I don't want her cutting on my hair.
My appointment is in a couple of weeks, and I'm starting to have second thoughts. I really believe that this stylist is going to insist on cutting my dry ends off, and not follow my wishes.
What do you all think? Should I go back to this stylist?