serious relationships and plastic surgeries?

[lea86111]

ok soooo i am TOYING with the idea of getting a boob job (34a to maybe a small 34c, i just don't feel too femminine with my size and it just doesn't go with the rest of my body blah blah blah etc =( m nt doing it for a man!) in a few years and i am currently single, but i was wondering if any of you know someone who did and how did their SO react when they found out? Did they not take them seriously anymore? Did they mind?

pls no "just love yourself" type answers. Thanxxx

 

[Syrah]

Two scenarios: good friend from college did it...her SO (at the time) didn't think she needed it but was totally supportive and is still supportive to this day. They are now married and she's 5 months pregnant. Another friend from college did it, started flaunting the upgraded puppies and her man bounced.

Personally I think it comes down to why you want it.

Just don't go too big. I'm a 34C and envy smaller ladies - because I feel like ya'll have the best of both worlds - you can play up what you've got when you want to, or you can wear the low cut fashion forward stuff.

 

[caltron]

I have never heard of a man that really cared all that much about boob jobs as long as they look good and natural. That goes for any fake body part too (hair, nails, butt, etc.). They are just very superficial creatures and they luv breasts.

Women on the other hand...

If it something you really want I say go for it.

 

[MizAvalon]

I know many, many women who have had plastic surgery. Boob jobs, nose jobs, tummy tucks, you name it. I have never heard of a man who broke up with them because of it. Most were very supportive.

Honestly, with something as personal as that, I wouldn't be caring what any man thought about it unless it was my husband and even then the final say still belongs to me.

If you really want to do it, go for it!

 

[Bunny77]

I like being a 34A. My girls are so perky and cute!


But yeah, co-sign what MizAvalon said.

 

[JustKiya]

I would hope that by the your future SO (as you said you were single now, right?) touches/sees/fondles your boobs, he would know enough about you to know that they weren't a sign of any deeper issues, and you would know enough about him to know that he wasn't going to go running out into the night over a lil saline and/or silicone.

I've only known a couple of women who have gotten surgery, and while none of their men thought they 'needed' it - none of them minded, either. Well, one fellow did, as he thought she took too much off of her nose - but he still didn't ditch her over it.

 

[lea86111]

ok thanks ladies. I would think that to some (if you're dating and all of a sudden break the news to them) would be a turn off. But from your stories it seems like mostly they wouldn't mind too much...i thought maybe they would no longer look @ me as "wife material" (i'm not even close to consider marriage right now, but all choices we make have consequences) but then again if they truly liked me then i'm assuming it won't be a deal breaker.

 

[dlewis]

The only men that mind are the ones that paid for it and how another man is enjoying his boobs. I've seen this alot. And the ex's always let it be known that they paid for those boobs.

 

[dlewis]

I have never heard of a man that really cared all that much about boob jobs as long as they look good and natural. That goes for any fake body part too (hair, nails, butt, etc.). They are just very superficial creatures and they luv breasts.

Women on the other hand...

If it something you really want I say go for it.

Most really don't care.

 

[BillsBackerz67]

they really do not care unless you have a strong desire to look like a freak show when it's all said and done.

I want mine done but still on the fence. SO does not like large breasts at all and would prefer that i stay the size I am. I'd only want a B though

 

[FlawedBeauty]

i have mine done and dudes dont care. they dont even know til i tell them, which i never understand because to me they feel a little firm because they are saline not silicone. the last reaction i got to telling a guy i was dating was, "are you serious?! thats hot." im like wtf

 

[Theo]

i think my SO would be really upset if i got plastic surgery. he gets upset when i put braids in my hair.

that being said, its up to you. i think 34C is a good size to be. then again, i'm probably quite biased lol

 

[lea86111]

i have mine done and dudes dont care. they dont even know til i tell them, which i never understand because to me they feel a little firm because they are saline not silicone. the last reaction i got to telling a guy i was dating was, "are you serious?! thats hot." im like wtf

that's both interesting and funny! If you don't mind me asking, why did you get saline and not silicone if they are harder?