Question asked me at church

[Coffee]

You don't use grease on your hair do you? That was the question I was asked last week at church. I said no, and she wanted to know what I used and I told her mainly coconut oil. My question, how would she be able to tell that I don't use grease?

 

[january noir]

Who knows. What did her hair look like?

 

[locabouthair]

No offense but I think maybe she thought your hair looked dry. In your siggy, it doesnt look dry to me but that might be why she asked. My mom is always telling me to use grease because my hair looks dry.

But there could have been another reason she asked.

 

[camilla]

MAYBE because it wasn't plastered to your head...lol

 

[newflowers]

MAYBE because it wasn't plastered to your head...lol

This may well be it - when you don't use grease on your hair, it looks clean and shiny and silky without that artificial plastered, well, greasy look. I'll bet that's why she asked.

 

[Digital Tempest]

MAYBE because it wasn't plastered to your head...lol

Same thing I was thinking.

 

[january noir]

This may well be it - when you don't use grease on your hair, it looks clean and shiny and silky without that artificial plastered, well, greasy look. I'll bet that's why she asked.

That's what I'm thinking.

 

[RadiantBeauty]

Maybe she was just being nosy.

 

[MrsQueeny]

MAYBE because it wasn't plastered to your head...lol

I think so too. Q

 

[Coffee]

Yawl are too funny, but I think the not being plastered to my head is correct. My hair doesn't look dry, so I don't think that's it. I think she must use grease on her hair, because it didn't have any fluff to it, if that makes sense.

 

[Je Ne Sais Quoi]

 

[IDareT'sHair]

She's Probably been "Admiring" Your Hair for a While, and this question was probably her sedgeway into asking more about Your Hair. That really probably wasn't what she really wanted to know.

She probably wanted to know more. Like about Your Regimen etc....

I have found when people ask me: "What Kind of Make Up do you use?" (And I get this ALL the Time, Always Have) from Black & White Women.

They really want to know something else, and if I give them the opportunity, they want to know what I use on my face for cleansing etc....

It's always a "Loaded" Question. It's just how "open" I am with my answers.

 

[Coffee]

Well I took the lady who asked about my hair some coconut oil today. I really looked at her hair and while it's nice, it does just lay there, probably from the grease she uses. I also took some HairVeda Shea Aloe to use on another lady's granddaughter's hair. She also wants me to order her some more. I got about 5 comments on my hair, one from the Pastor so ya'll know you couldn't tell me nothing today.

 

[tiffers]

Aw, Coffee, that was so nice of you!!!

 

[Toy]

Coffee you know what you are doing is working keep it up congrats.

 

[Coffee]

I don't mind helping IF asked, but I'm not going to volunteer nothing.

 

[Lovelylife]

Does it have bounce? Bouncy hair doesn't have grease.

 

[Coffee]

Her's doesn't bounce, move, shake, or anything. Mine does, so that must be why she said that I don't use grease.

 

[january noir]

Her's doesn't bounce, move, shake, or anything. Mine does, so that's why she said that I don't use grease.

That's what we thought!

 

[Khaiya]

OT: Tiffers, i saw that little bug in your siggy out the corner of my eye and was just about to smash my laptop screen in to kill it. LMAO!! Good thing i caught myself in time.

 

[AwesomelyNappy]

congrats on all of the hair congrats today!!! lol

That was awesome of you to give her some coconut oil too! maybe you might start a trend

 

[Coffee]

Thanks! There are quite a few women in my church that need some type of hair intervention.

 

[SweetSpirit86]

MAYBE because it wasn't plastered to your head...lol

Lol..my thought as well. Greased hair tends to look "heavier" and it gets that pleather shine (i.e. fake) going to it.

 

[MyHeavenlyFatherKnows]

I would also like to add that for a lot of people---shiny is not enough...it needs to look like a "press and curl" complete with at least a touch of greasy...like PRODUCT should be obvious---not just shine.

 

[SimpleKomplexity]

lol I've had people look at me krazy too about the hair just swangin thing. Yeah, she was just admiring the swang of things. I know since my hair is thin, when I used to use [pink oil headress] my hair wouldn't go ANYWHERE

 

[ANUBIS]

probably because your hair doent look like fly paper...with dust particles and stuff clinging onto your hair.