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Hi Ladies, my girlfriend's daughter Ella has beautiful thick natural hair. Ella gets picked on in school about her hair. I personally think that the little girls involved are jealous but since Ella is a little girl she can't see that yet. All she knows it that it hurts her feelings. I have a date with my Pretty Ella (that's what I call her) a little later today. We are just gonna hang out at the mall and eat. I thought it would be nice to have some comments on her hair from women who can appreciate her hair. I will show her the comments later and I hope they make her smile. You guys would really be helping me out. No one else in her family is natural so she is constantly asking for a relaxer. Her mom is at her wit's end but feels a little hypocritically trying to encourage her daughter while her own hair is relaxed. Any here is my Pretty Ella. . .

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Ella I'm natural and I think your hair BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!! It long and healthy. I wish I had hair like yours when I was a little girl. There will always mean people at school, ignore them. Those mean girls wish they had hair like yours.
 
She's beautiful! Remember that nobody can still your joy, you can only willingly hand it over. Be blessed!:yep:
 
Ella you have beautiful hair!!
Ignore those girls who tease you at school, I'm sure they are just jealous.
 
Be proud of your hair Ella, it's beautiful and believe me all the girls who are being mean at school only wished their hair looked like yours. Enjoy it!
 
Hi Ella,
I rarely post, but I have to today just to tell you how beautiful you and your hair are. Your hair looks like my niece's hair. She is 12 and does not have a relaxer and I hope she never gets her hair relaxed.

Do you realize how much money some people spend to BUY fake hair to make it look like they have hair like yours? Probably some of the same girls who tease you will soon be wearing fake hair (they may already be doing so) in order to create hairstyles that require long, thick, lovely hair like yours!
 
Putting in her head that everyone is jealous of her is prolly not a good way to go lol. You don't want her to grow up to be the one picking on other people because they DON'T have long hair.

But anyway, Tell her that Vida Starr said she and her hair are gorgeous and amazing because she is gorgeous and amazing.
 
Ella you and your hair are beautiful. know that when people tease you about anything its because they see something in you they wish they had. people will always try to belittle you but you are a child of God. remember that. your are beautiful.
 
Wow those girls at school are just mad that their hair isn't that long and thick. I hope you keep it just the way it is and you will soon see how many people are trying hard to get hair like yours. You should take her to a beauty supply store and let her see all the weave and wigs that don't even come close to her hairs beauty. I'm natural and I think if ANYONE in the world has lovely long hair like yours they shouldn't do anything to change it. In the pic on here I wouldn't know it was natural if you hadn't told me it looks like a relaxer that took really well so getting one wouldn't serve a purpose. Her hair is fabulous and she's my inspiration I want my hair to be just like hers.
 
Hi Pretty Ella,
Your hair is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS, sweetie. Don't let anything that those mean people say to you hurt your feeling. Many of them are jealous because they wished that they had something that you have (nice hair and a wonderful spirit). People only say mean things to make themselves feel better. The next time someone comments on you hair, tell them that "you really appreciate the fact that they took time out of their day to concern themselves with YOU. You must really mean a lot to them for them to utter your name out of their mouth." Then, swing your beautiful hair as you turn around and go play with your "real friends." Do not think about getting a relaxer to "fit in" with other people. Never change who you are to fit into someone else's standards. If you did, you wouldn't still be you.

Changing up Dr. Seuss' quote: Be WHO YOU ARE because those that matter won't mind, and those that mind, DON'T matter :)
 
Your hair is beautiful, and so are you Ella! When I was a little girl and people were mean to me I told them that they were bullies and shallow.

You have long beautiful healthy hair. I can't wait until mine looks more like yours! So pretty!
 
Honey, You are beautiful inside and outside, your hair, features and spirit. Sometimes, other people see that and they feel bad about themselves that they are not like that so they try to make you feel bad. Feel sorry for them because you have family who care about you and only want the best for you and some of them don't have that many people around them. Don't let them make you do something that you really don't want to do and don't need to do. You can be a light in a dark world.
 
Pretty Ella,

You are a beautiful young lady. Your hair is beautiful. Those other children are just jealous and wish they had hair like yours and as beautiful as you. SMILE. God never makes a mistake and made you perfect in his image. Be Blessed.
 
Ella is beautiful and her hair is amazing but if she doesn't believe it ....it doesn't matter how many adults say it especially if they are relaxed. What may be beneficial is to ask Ella what she feels about herself and if she could change somehing about herself what would it be and why. It would give you some idea of what she is thinking and maybe what the best approach would be to help her realize her own natural beauty. It maybe good for her mom to see if there are more natural girls at school who Ella could have play dates with just to let her know she isn't the only one with natural hair. It may also be good to show her pictures of black women or girls with natural hair so she can hopefully recognize the beauty there. It's tricky with kids because most of the time the only opinion that really matters are of those who don't matter....unfortunately they turn into adults with the same mindset. I think its commendable what you are doing providing a young lady with a sense of self worth and a healthy self esteem should alwways be applauded.

I always find kids to be more receptive to discussions when they are being heard even if you don't agree with what they are saying it usually will help them trust what you are saying more. Good luck.
 
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As someone who has gone natural in the last 4 years I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that I wish that I had hair like yours as a little girl. Your hair is so beautiful, thick, and lush looking that those other girls are only jealous.
 
Ella, your hair is sooooo pretty :yep:!!!! Always love it and take care of it so that your hair stays just as beautiful when you grow up :grin:.
 
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Putting in her head that everyone is jealous of her is prolly not a good way to go lol. You don't want her to grow up to be the one picking on other people because they DON'T have long hair.

But anyway, Tell her that Vida Starr said she and her hair are gorgeous and amazing because she is gorgeous and amazing.
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Ella, your hair is beautiful just the way it is. Please don't let the girls at school make you sad or unhappy. Know that we embrace you, and I hope you have a great day :)
 
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