LadyBlu
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My girlfriends and I got into this discussion during our New Year's conversation, and it involved "the game"
I was telling the ladies about the book "Why Men Love B@#%&ES" which was recommended to me on LHCF and how we have to learn how to not be so vulnerable and giving so early in relationships.
Does anyone else have a problem with this theory? I mean, as I read, I could definitely point out that within the list of the things women do wrong in relationships, I did about 90% of them, but it made me think...
Why do we give men so much? Is it a matter of self worth or are we simply being loving?
Why do men feel the need to take advantage of our kindness?
Why should we have to play the hard-to-get, evasive, "I care, but I have to pretend not to care" role in order to "get" the man. What's up with the whole dangle-the-bait, make him chase you syndrome?
Surely there are still men out there that are truly ready for a real relationship and won't take advantage of a good woman. But where are they and how can we spot them? Just some random thoughts. Input?
I was telling the ladies about the book "Why Men Love B@#%&ES" which was recommended to me on LHCF and how we have to learn how to not be so vulnerable and giving so early in relationships.
Does anyone else have a problem with this theory? I mean, as I read, I could definitely point out that within the list of the things women do wrong in relationships, I did about 90% of them, but it made me think...
Why do we give men so much? Is it a matter of self worth or are we simply being loving?
Why do men feel the need to take advantage of our kindness?
Why should we have to play the hard-to-get, evasive, "I care, but I have to pretend not to care" role in order to "get" the man. What's up with the whole dangle-the-bait, make him chase you syndrome?
Surely there are still men out there that are truly ready for a real relationship and won't take advantage of a good woman. But where are they and how can we spot them? Just some random thoughts. Input?