I'm currently 21 weeks post and I love my new growth however I'm at shoulder length and I want to have longer hair, for those of you that have transitioned without a BC, did you wait until you were at a certain length before transitioning? Just to clarify, I'm not ready to take that step now but I think that if my hair was way longer I'd feel more comfortable transitioning.
I would say no. The longer your chemically treated hair is the more you end up having to cut off. I wish I had done it at shoulder length vs BSL. Just think, in two years (I transitioned for two years) I cut ALL MY GROWTH OFF.
(It is possible to keep your ends but very few women can do that. The difference in texture is usually too great. Natural hair is usually so much stronger than chemically treated hair it overpowers the old hair.)
Two years ago I was grazing BSL. Now I'm The exact same length. I basically cut everything I grew. And I have to tell you, not a day went by that I didn't wish I had started at a shorter length. Imagine if I had been able to keep all that growth????!!! Omg....let me fan myself and calm down......
Also, the longer your hair is, the more potential for tangles as your new growth comes in.
I will tell u what DID make it easier on me than some other women I have seen. I had texlaxed hair.
I transitioned to texlaxed hair from bonelaxed hair in 2007. (I was shoulder length at the time.). So when I decided to go natural in 2011, I had some experience with curly hair and methods and products etc. and that helped me alot.
Bone straight hair and new growth don't blend so I personally feel that stark difference in texture makes it harder to transition long term.
If I could give you one piece of advice I would say, if you are thinking about transitioning, give yourself a deadline of a few months, think about it and decide. Don't wait 4 years into your journey like I did and then end up slowly cutting away all your progress.