coolsista-paris
Well-Known Member
i last relaxed in dec 2007...bc oct 2008. ok at first made mistakes of leaving my hair out so much even in winter . i manipulated à lot..... i only found out i had fine hair this yeah (never asked myself the question before coming on lhcf )thanks to you all!
but after washing yesterday and loosing hair..detangling as usual i was mad ! i im so mad cause im apl after 4years post last relaxer . i love big hair bit as im fine headed i should not manipulate too much. i think ill never get to my goals of mbl or wl.....huh ? fine natural 4b.
im now doing things right but its like im going nowhere . or then sometimes things go right then setback cause of knots or falling hair .....making efforts being gentle and feeling stuck just sucks !
i feel like shaving everything off or relaxing for easy care .hubby s saying dont and im fed up.
feel like crying and shouting .
but after washing yesterday and loosing hair..detangling as usual i was mad ! i im so mad cause im apl after 4years post last relaxer . i love big hair bit as im fine headed i should not manipulate too much. i think ill never get to my goals of mbl or wl.....huh ? fine natural 4b.
im now doing things right but its like im going nowhere . or then sometimes things go right then setback cause of knots or falling hair .....making efforts being gentle and feeling stuck just sucks !
i feel like shaving everything off or relaxing for easy care .hubby s saying dont and im fed up.
feel like crying and shouting .
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