Kinkyhairlady
Well-Known Member
He’s going through some stuff and I feel bad. I had a recent convo with my ex he opened up about a lot of stuff going on in his life and why was I about to cry. I was sitting there giving him advice and telling him to seek the Lord etc. After that I even prayed for him. I’m worried about him but I have no idea why I should. It’s crazy when folks hurt us we hope they pay for it and even question why they don’t but I realized that it is best you don’t see the person who hurt you suffer, its not a feeling of satisifaction. It depends on what the circumstances are but this whole thing has been troubling me. I know I wished him just the worst because he was such a jerk face. At the same time I don’t want to get caught up in his mess so I’m trying to lend an ear over the phone but not face to face as he is asking to. How do I know how God wants me to handle this? I know this may be a chance to get someone converted but at the same time I don’t want to get my feelings mixed up into anything, I'm all about my Lord now. God is good and has definitely made me stronger these past few years. Should I help someone who treated my like crap just to get them to God or should I just shrung and not care?