I may divorce NTM Silk after 10 months of monogomy

[DivaRox]

See Leshia, I know where you are coming from. When you are raised with good, solid, no-nonsense, tried and true, salt-of-the-earth values, and you ain't hard-headed and listen, you will find your soulmate at a very young age. It's like an arranged marriage, that your parents set-up for you, shortly after you were born.

The problem comes when you leave out of that safe environment, thinking you done discovered America, and everything that your Grandma, Momma and Aunties told you, was some bull! You see all these nice shiny flip-top caps and spray misters with their purdy colors and their fancy smells, then you wanna step out from everything that was healthy and try some new tricks.

Sulfer is a good man, he ain't never done nobody wrong. He can come on a little strong sometimes, and he is kuntry as hell, but that big goofy guy loves you. So please don't leave him behind, he might not accept you when you come crawling back looking like a bald-headed yard duck smelling like CHI and cheap conditioner.

OK, I've been laughing and giggling my way through this thread, and here Frizzy come along and kill me stone dead!!!

You all are my kind of crazy!!

I'm the cheating kind so this thread is right on time. I have the NTM but a girl like me is always creeping to find some side action. How do you wear your hair when using this product? I am in braids so any product I choose is not gonna affect my texture, but I am looking to maximize my moisture at all times, so when it's time to unbraid I have maximum retention. Whatchall hairhoes think?

 

[EbonyHairedPrincess]

What seems so dirty about all this is that you guys just talk about it like it's okay to cheat. I mean, come on ladies, where are your morals/values? What about the younger married folk we're influencing? I've been married to my homemade sulfur/essential oil mix for the last month and now I'm curious about your man! We're happily married but now I'm having very sordid thoughts. In the end, the truth ALWAYS comes out but in the meantime, you're harboring those angry/guilty feelings, along with your obvious confusion. Running from this one, to that one and back again. I mean, sure, he's cheap and you're experiencing hairgasms but really, a girl's got to wonder...who's next? WHO, ladies, is next?

Now I'm conflicted and feeling kinda guilty . I didn't set out to actually leave him. I was just curious as to what was out there! 10 months is a long time to be faithful. I will never spoke badly of NTM he's ALWAYS going to be my first. Who knows, we may even kick it later. It probably seems I am the love him and leave him type but I'm not. I am commited to him, I just need a break. If I don't test the waters, I'll never know if i'm in the right relationship.

 

[EbonyHairedPrincess]

See Leshia, I know where you are coming from. When you are raised with good, solid, no-nonsense, tried and true, salt-of-the-earth values, and you ain't hard-headed and listen, you will find your soulmate at a very young age. It's like an arranged marriage, that your parents set-up for you, shortly after you were born.

The problem comes when you leave out of that safe environment, thinking you done discovered America, and everything that your Grandma, Momma and Aunties told you, was some bull! You see all these nice shiny flip-top caps and spray misters with their purdy colors and their fancy smells, then you wanna step out from everything that was healthy and try some new tricks.

Sulfer is a good man, he ain't never done nobody wrong. He can come on a little strong sometimes, and he is kuntry as hell, but that big goofy guy loves you. So please don't leave him behind, he might not accept you when you come crawling back looking like a bald-headed yard duck smelling like CHI and cheap conditioner.

ITA, hey if you like them "kuntry" who are we to say anything. Plus you two only been together a short time. You might want to wait and see if it he's the ONE. If he's making you feel beautiful then go head and be with him. I just think you might be happier with one of the slicker city brothers.

 

[shunta]

Lol at the title of this thread. Yall are so crazy

 

[EbonyHairedPrincess]

OK, I've been laughing and giggling my way through this thread, and here Frizzy come along and kill me stone dead!!!

You all are my kind of crazy!!

I'm the cheating kind so this thread is right on time. I have the NTM but a girl like me is always creeping to find some side action. How do you wear your hair when using this product? I am in braids so any product I choose is not gonna affect my texture, but I am looking to maximize my moisture at all times, so when it's time to unbraid I have maximum retention. Whatchall hairhoes think?

She was out cold with the chi & cheap conditioner comment. I don't think he's experienced working with braids but when you get them out I would hook up with NTM. He's so good & he forgives all your mistakes. I told you he gave me 4 beautiful inches. Seeing that your the cheating kind I would let NTM think your together and play him for the benefits. Get some Herbal Essence on the side.

 

[DivaRox]

She was out cold with the chi & cheap conditioner comment. I don't think he's experienced working with braids but when you get them out I would hook up with NTM. He's so good & he forgives all your mistakes. I told you he gave me 4 beautiful inches. Seeing that your the cheating kind I would let NTM think your together and play him for the benefits. Get some Herbal Essence on the side.

Girl, I already sneak around with the HE, can't beat the smell for hair perfume. I dilute with water and use as a leave in. I follow up with a fine spritz of mn diluted in water for my scalp. Oh the products I throw on my hair.

 

[Leshia]

See Leshia,

Sulfer is a good man, he ain't never done nobody wrong. He can come on a little strong sometimes, and he is kuntry as hell, but that big goofy guy loves you. So please don't leave him behind, he might not accept you when you come crawling back looking like a bald-headed yard duck smelling like CHI and cheap conditioner.

*sigh* :::nods::::: you're right. I think I do still love him! You missed your calling, girl. Should've been a marriage counselor...

 

[Leshia]

Now I'm conflicted and feeling kinda guilty . I didn't set out to actually leave him. I was just curious as to what was out there! 10 months is a long time to be faithful. I will never spoke badly of NTM he's ALWAYS going to be my first. Who knows, we may even kick it later. It probably seems I am the love him and leave him type but I'm not. I am commited to him, I just need a break. If I don't test the waters, I'll never know if i'm in the right relationship.

But DIVORCE him? I mean, goodness. Yeah, he gave you four inches (and understandably, you want mooorreeee, baby!) *clears throat* but anyway, he did give you four inches the best way he knew how. Sure, you may get a good 8 inches from someone else, *raises eyebrows* but what then? You'll go off, looking for 12???!!!

 

[EbonyHairedPrincess]

But DIVORCE him? I mean, goodness. Yeah, he gave you four inches (and understandably, you want mooorreeee, baby!) *clears throat* but anyway, he did give you four inches the best way he knew how. Sure, you may get a good 8 inches from someone else, *raises eyebrows* but what then? You'll go off, looking for 12???!!!

Divorce is a major step. Right now I got him on the shelf right. I think he knows something is up. He just sits there watching me wondering when we'll be together. I am going slow in my decision. I know sometimes things are never the same when you try to go back after you've messed around with someone else.

 

[motherx2esq]

I've been cheating with Herbal Essence "No More Frizz For Me" line for about three weeks now. It's the best I've ever had. I may leave my first love that gave me 4 beautiful inches. I have been indulged with the daily moisturizing and fraternizing with the conditioner . It was clear after our first encounter that there was a mutual attraction!

I had to confess my adultery knowing that disclosing my indiscretion, it may cause others to stray. Forgive me .

Now I can have "him" all t myself!

 

[frizzy]

See, I didn't tell on myself, I'm not in a committed hairlationship, I date a different one every day to the week. I'm keeping my options open, some of them I like a lot, some of them I just hang out with when I don't have anything better to do. My rolodex is FULL. Everytime I go out, I make a new friend. Sometimes we hang out in a group, mixing and carrying on. It's too much out there to do, for me to settle on one, but those of you that are committed, I'll do everthing to encourage you to stay. You can always live vicariously through us hairhoes.

 

[itismehmmkay]

But DIVORCE him? I mean, goodness. Yeah, he gave you four inches (and understandably, you want mooorreeee, baby!) *clears throat* but anyway, he did give you four inches the best way he knew how. Sure, you may get a good 8 inches from someone else, *raises eyebrows* but what then? You'll go off, looking for 12???!!!

you ladies are a trip...

 

[Hair Iam]

This is HAIR OPERA

 

[chica_canella]

Well, I have never dated NTM, always seemed to be monogamous to Suave Humectress. S-curl is my baby daddy so I am obligated to see him from time to time.

Suave Humectress doesn't mind, as long as I come back home.