madame.coco
New Member
It is good you found out.
Be suspicious of any man with whom you are still just "talking to" for 3 years.
well it sounds like she was the one pumping the brakes on them becoming exclusive. &to echo what the other ladies have posted, having "talked" to the cat for three years does not promise you any kind of monogamy. that's the cold truth. after a while the waiting gets old. you're not seeing anyone else because you didn't have enough time for this one in the first place. sounds like a lack of communication to me. just take some time. breathe. think about the situation. the only person i see in this as really being in the wrong is 'ol girl for going through his phone and contacting you. she was definitely out of line for that.
God bless though, i know you're hurting regardless...