MRJ1972
New Member
A Little Background......
September 2005- April 2007
NL hair...I wore sew in weaves, leaving the top, sides and nape area out in an attempt to grow out my hair..I washed and conditioned weekly with Kera Care or Design products...only DC when I removed the hair to get a new install...only relaxed tops, sides and nape area during this time, no leave-ins, creams, oils, etc...also had a lot of tangles when I removed the sew in and washed because the majority of my hair - the sewed in portion- was not being relaxed so the different textures were tough to deal with..
April 2007- May 2007
Decided to get micro braids because I was tired of weaves...My hair was APL at this time...The lady that put the micros in, made them REALLY, REALLY small...When it was time to remove them, I became frustrated because I could not determine where my hair ended, so I ended up brushing the braids out of my hair!!!erplexed BIG MISTAKE
May 2007-April 2008
Installed a new sew in to hide my EXTREMELY thin hair...same regimen..wash and condition, relax top, sides and nape, no DC until hair removed to get new install....2 different textures still causing tangles when entire sew in is removed....
April 2008
Removed sew in- relaxed entire head...now past BRA STRAP, but thinner than a sheet of paper!!!! Totally depressed and disgusted...Cut my hair to APL to make it appear thicker, still thin!!!
April 2008-February 2009
Installed sew in, same old regimen as above,...Feeling defeated, hair still thin, started searching the internet to find out how to thicken my hair, found and joined LHCF!!
March 2009
Relaxed entire head but didnt not install sew in.. hair is still THIN!!!!...Started wearing buns, either wet buns or roller set then bunned....Lots of shedding and very fragile hair especially when washing...Tried products for damaged hair....Used Aphoghee 2 min, Affirm 5 n 1, Affirm Sustenance, Some Garnier Length and Stength...Just started using JOICO k-pak 2 weeks ago...
MAY 2009
Went to a dominican salon to get roller set and roots blown out because I am going to an event and the lady told me that my hair is extremely weak..I confessed that I had been wearing sew ins for a while and she says " so THAT is why your hair is so thin?"...I ask her how much would she charge to do extensions and she said that my hair was too weak for extensions and blow outs and that I needed to cut off the thin ends and do weekly treatments- she mentioned garlic and some other spanish name.. I figured she was telling me the truth ( because she is known for her extensions, which are expensive 300.00 and up) and not just trying to cut my hair..It is only APL now but sooo thin and transparent, so i doubt that she is a HATER
Whart should I do????
I dont want short, THIN hair!!!!!....If I cut my hair, it still wont be as thick as I want it...But if I dont cut it, then what??? APL transparent hair, is not a cute look! I dont mind a cute bob cut...I know someone that cuts really cute and she said she would hook me up, but what if the bob is thin??? What do you guys suggest?? I will need to cut the back up to neck length at least because I have a patch of hair underneath the longer parts that is broken off at the nape and wont grow
I am really beginning to think that once the hair is damaged as bad as mine is, the only solution is to cut and start over....
UPDATE!!!!!!!
To everyone who responded, I really appreciate it!
I have decided to somewhat incorporate everyone's advice into my decision....
I plan to: Trim a LOT of hair from my ends, wear protective styles, find a strengthening regimen, and use clip ins when I want to wear my hair down for special occasions...I am still trying to determine if I should stretch my relaxers longer than 3 months since my hair is soo weak and thin...I may stop at 3 months for now and then extend the timeframe once my hair becomes strong again....
THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!
September 2005- April 2007
NL hair...I wore sew in weaves, leaving the top, sides and nape area out in an attempt to grow out my hair..I washed and conditioned weekly with Kera Care or Design products...only DC when I removed the hair to get a new install...only relaxed tops, sides and nape area during this time, no leave-ins, creams, oils, etc...also had a lot of tangles when I removed the sew in and washed because the majority of my hair - the sewed in portion- was not being relaxed so the different textures were tough to deal with..
April 2007- May 2007
Decided to get micro braids because I was tired of weaves...My hair was APL at this time...The lady that put the micros in, made them REALLY, REALLY small...When it was time to remove them, I became frustrated because I could not determine where my hair ended, so I ended up brushing the braids out of my hair!!!erplexed BIG MISTAKE
May 2007-April 2008
Installed a new sew in to hide my EXTREMELY thin hair...same regimen..wash and condition, relax top, sides and nape, no DC until hair removed to get new install....2 different textures still causing tangles when entire sew in is removed....
April 2008
Removed sew in- relaxed entire head...now past BRA STRAP, but thinner than a sheet of paper!!!! Totally depressed and disgusted...Cut my hair to APL to make it appear thicker, still thin!!!
April 2008-February 2009
Installed sew in, same old regimen as above,...Feeling defeated, hair still thin, started searching the internet to find out how to thicken my hair, found and joined LHCF!!
March 2009
Relaxed entire head but didnt not install sew in.. hair is still THIN!!!!...Started wearing buns, either wet buns or roller set then bunned....Lots of shedding and very fragile hair especially when washing...Tried products for damaged hair....Used Aphoghee 2 min, Affirm 5 n 1, Affirm Sustenance, Some Garnier Length and Stength...Just started using JOICO k-pak 2 weeks ago...
MAY 2009
Went to a dominican salon to get roller set and roots blown out because I am going to an event and the lady told me that my hair is extremely weak..I confessed that I had been wearing sew ins for a while and she says " so THAT is why your hair is so thin?"...I ask her how much would she charge to do extensions and she said that my hair was too weak for extensions and blow outs and that I needed to cut off the thin ends and do weekly treatments- she mentioned garlic and some other spanish name.. I figured she was telling me the truth ( because she is known for her extensions, which are expensive 300.00 and up) and not just trying to cut my hair..It is only APL now but sooo thin and transparent, so i doubt that she is a HATER
Whart should I do????
I dont want short, THIN hair!!!!!....If I cut my hair, it still wont be as thick as I want it...But if I dont cut it, then what??? APL transparent hair, is not a cute look! I dont mind a cute bob cut...I know someone that cuts really cute and she said she would hook me up, but what if the bob is thin??? What do you guys suggest?? I will need to cut the back up to neck length at least because I have a patch of hair underneath the longer parts that is broken off at the nape and wont grow
I am really beginning to think that once the hair is damaged as bad as mine is, the only solution is to cut and start over....
UPDATE!!!!!!!
To everyone who responded, I really appreciate it!
I have decided to somewhat incorporate everyone's advice into my decision....
I plan to: Trim a LOT of hair from my ends, wear protective styles, find a strengthening regimen, and use clip ins when I want to wear my hair down for special occasions...I am still trying to determine if I should stretch my relaxers longer than 3 months since my hair is soo weak and thin...I may stop at 3 months for now and then extend the timeframe once my hair becomes strong again....
THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!
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