Girl, hol' on, hol' on, hol' on! what's up?!?! I'm with Papoose...take a deep breath and let it out......WOOO-SAAHHHH!
DOn't cut off all those pretty curls! Your WnG have so much curls on the ends, I'm tryna understand why your twists don't retain the curls.
You know what...when I look at your twists pic in your FOTKI, your hair twists JUST LIKE MINE....I have to pay special attention to my ends...I actually smooth my hair with product all the way to the ends and
then see which way the curl is forming at the end before I twist to make sure I am twisting in the most natural direction for that chunk of hair (bc all my strands don't necessarily clump and play nice with each other). For this reason, all my twists are not going in the same direction. Do you do this, too?
I also have to make sure my ends are super wet and super saturated with product in order for them to form a nice coil at the end to lock in the twist. If I don't do this, my twists either straighten out my hair bc it's going in the opposite direction of the natural curl and/or unravels and looks like a broom on the end.
When my ends are straight like that, sometimes just misting a
little distilled water on and scrunching will help the ends revert a little.
Girl, don't cut off your hair!
Do you have color, too? I do and I can't
wait until my hair grows out a bit more so I can snip more of it off until it's gone completely bc it also makes the ends more prone to being straight with my coarse hair. I can still mist it though and they curl back up so at least they are not sticking out.
You can work with it until it grows out a bit more and then you can cut it off little by little...
Girl, are you just yucked out by that dude putting his hand all up in your head?