BlackMasterPiece
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What do YOU do to end the cycle of Low Hair Esteem in little girls?
ESPECIALLY the girls with the type 4 range that has been deemed "bad"
Share techniques strategies!
What are you doing to end the cycle of self-hate in little girls?
I personally stop little girls I see with very tightly coily hair and tell them how beautiful I think they are and how beautiful their hair is, I sometimes have little girls look behind themselves in disbelief that I'm saying this to them then they lock eyes with me again and shyly say thank you with a huge smile it happens alot....I've had little girls stare at me for a few seconds as if to say, did she really just say that? and then they smile and say thanks...I think this can make a big impact.
As girls and as women we want to feel beautiful and our hair is a big part of that. When someone tells you the hair that naturally grows out of your head is ugly, you in turn feel ugly and inferior and start making associations to blackness and it can start to run very deep. What are your tactics to end this with the next generation?
Feel free to share your story!!
I was made fun of for all the attributes I've come to love about my hair the coils, the texture, the thickness I love it all!! But I think one of the biggest advantages I had was I had my mommy in my corner always telling me how beautiful my hair is natural and eventually......when I grew out of the phase where all I wanted to do was fit in with the HS crowd, her encouragement gave me strength and I'm now natural for life
ESPECIALLY the girls with the type 4 range that has been deemed "bad"
Share techniques strategies!
What are you doing to end the cycle of self-hate in little girls?
I personally stop little girls I see with very tightly coily hair and tell them how beautiful I think they are and how beautiful their hair is, I sometimes have little girls look behind themselves in disbelief that I'm saying this to them then they lock eyes with me again and shyly say thank you with a huge smile it happens alot....I've had little girls stare at me for a few seconds as if to say, did she really just say that? and then they smile and say thanks...I think this can make a big impact.
As girls and as women we want to feel beautiful and our hair is a big part of that. When someone tells you the hair that naturally grows out of your head is ugly, you in turn feel ugly and inferior and start making associations to blackness and it can start to run very deep. What are your tactics to end this with the next generation?
Feel free to share your story!!
I was made fun of for all the attributes I've come to love about my hair the coils, the texture, the thickness I love it all!! But I think one of the biggest advantages I had was I had my mommy in my corner always telling me how beautiful my hair is natural and eventually......when I grew out of the phase where all I wanted to do was fit in with the HS crowd, her encouragement gave me strength and I'm now natural for life
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