hide your hair challenge and SO

[Evolving78]

for the ladies that are doing the HYH challenge, how do you get away with doing that and you may have a dh or live-in SO? see i wear scarfs around the house, but he sees my hair when i wash and twist it and i can't walk around with a wig on in the house all day with these kids. how do you handle it?

 

[moonglowdiva]

Does HD and / or SO really count??? I should think not. Just my 2 pennies.

 

[lexi84]

I care what he thinks, but honestly not to the point where his opinion is gonna sway me away from making my goals.

But my SO has repeatedly told me that he doesnt care how I wear my hair as long as its neat.


ETA: Oh sorry i guess I mis-understood the question. Nevermind. Carry on.

 

[Evolving78]

what i mean is how do you get away with him not seeing it? like when you have to take your hair down, wash it, trim it, dc, etc...? it is easier to hide it from the public or people that don't live with you, but is it harder hiding it from the people that do?

 

[Evolving78]

Does HD and / or SO really count??? I should think not. Just my 2 pennies.

i think you misunderstood my post, but i do agree with you.

 

[Amerie123]

i think you misunderstood my post, but i do agree with you.

I think that she did understand. That's why she said she think they don't count. As in you don't necessarily have to hide ur hair from them. ESP since they are at the house with u.

 

[Evolving78]

I think that she did understand. That's why she said she think they don't count. As in you don't necessarily have to hide ur hair from them. ESP since they are at the house with u.

i'm sorry. i thought people were hiding their hair from their dh and SO. since the challenge did state that you hide it from everyone.

BUT, for those of you that are hiding it from your loved ones, how do you manage?

 

[moonglowdiva]

i'm sorry. i thought people were hiding their hair from their dh and SO. since the challenge did state that you hide it from everyone.

BUT, for those of you that are hiding it from your loved ones, how do you manage?

That other person is going to see the you that no one else will see. They will see you on your ugly days as well as the days that you'll dress up to impress people you will never see again. Technically you're just hiding your hair from everyone else except you immediately family members. Now if you just want to hide you hair from you immediately family just keep your hair covered or bunned or wear wigs, fall, or phony pony constantly and when you wash do it were no one will see you ( just close the door.) I'm in the hyh challenge and my kid are too preoccupied with themselves to notice me and SO doesn't live with me and when he did he didn't notice me much either. So. SO / DH doesn't count their just extension of yourself. That one flesh thing. Good Luck with the HYH Challenge.

 

[Evolving78]

i really wasn't in the hth challenge. i'm more in a protective style challenge. i was just curious about it. thanks ladies for your imput.

 

[glamazon386]

The point of the challenge is to hide the LENGTH of your hair. So if you're natural or texlaxed it won't really matter bc of shrinkage anyway. But I agree DH and SOs don't count. My SO hasn't seen my hair out and down since may though.

 

[Butterfly08]

When I hide I do from DH too. I shower and immediately bun. The few times I leave it down I catch him checkin' it out.