all_1_length
Well-Known Member
And no this was not intentional but yesterday for the first time I realized that my shampoo/conditioner must have straightened my natural hair. I mean my hair is almost bone straight. I did a wash yesterday and allowed my hair to air dry in twists. After drying I took my hair down and BOOM it was straight, no leav-ins no detangling or combing. I have never known my hair to be straight after drying without a relaxer and I haven't had one of those for about 11 years.
This was such a gradual process because I really didn't notice my hair getting straighter in the beginning. First it was easier to detangle like one pass through the comb easy. I could detangle my hair in the shower with my fingers, no combing necessary. Then my hair wouldn't need any heat to straighten it, all I needed to do was a roller set, air dry my hair and afterwards I could comb my hair out and it would be straighter.
My hair has always been fine stranded but I can remember having curls like 3c/4a curls all over my head. Now when I wash my hair can't find one curl. If I wet my hair it will shrink back but my springy curls are gone. I know I don't have heat damage because I barely use any heat at all. I must have flat ironed my hair about 4 or 5 times within the past year and I only do 1 pass keeping the heat around 325-350 degrees. I use my blow dryer on the coolest setting to dry my hair.
I am soooo pissed right now because I have been on my hair journey for about 2 years and it seems like I thought that I had overcome most of the problems that were giving me trouble with my hair but now this has thrown a monkey wrench in my entire program. This has totally changed the perception of my hair and what my problems are maintaining healthy hair.
My hair texture has really changed. It's much thinner now and more fragile. It breaks so easily that I have sworn off combing and brushing. I really don't know what to do. Is my hair relaxed now? Do I have to transition to get my hair back to normal? Will my hair break off more if I stop using said products and allow my natural hair to grow back in? Is this change permanent or will my curls grow back in time? I really don't know.
This was such a gradual process because I really didn't notice my hair getting straighter in the beginning. First it was easier to detangle like one pass through the comb easy. I could detangle my hair in the shower with my fingers, no combing necessary. Then my hair wouldn't need any heat to straighten it, all I needed to do was a roller set, air dry my hair and afterwards I could comb my hair out and it would be straighter.
My hair has always been fine stranded but I can remember having curls like 3c/4a curls all over my head. Now when I wash my hair can't find one curl. If I wet my hair it will shrink back but my springy curls are gone. I know I don't have heat damage because I barely use any heat at all. I must have flat ironed my hair about 4 or 5 times within the past year and I only do 1 pass keeping the heat around 325-350 degrees. I use my blow dryer on the coolest setting to dry my hair.
I am soooo pissed right now because I have been on my hair journey for about 2 years and it seems like I thought that I had overcome most of the problems that were giving me trouble with my hair but now this has thrown a monkey wrench in my entire program. This has totally changed the perception of my hair and what my problems are maintaining healthy hair.
My hair texture has really changed. It's much thinner now and more fragile. It breaks so easily that I have sworn off combing and brushing. I really don't know what to do. Is my hair relaxed now? Do I have to transition to get my hair back to normal? Will my hair break off more if I stop using said products and allow my natural hair to grow back in? Is this change permanent or will my curls grow back in time? I really don't know.