Emergencee is by Nexxus Kisz, I like it because it doesn't get hard. But Aphoghee or that exorbitantly priced
Dudley's one (DRC supmthin?) or Sebastian Pnenetraitt will also do. The protein conditioner you mentioned is a MILD protein which, with a color, you may use weekly unless you notice a little brittleness, at which point you can use a moisturizing one and then get back to your protein regime....
With colored hair you need to balance the moisture and the protein very carefully - but the emphasis should be on the protein and if your hair is acting "soft" (not holding a curl, feels a little rubbery or rubberbandy when stretched - test a strand to see) then it's protein your hairs asking for. A concentrated protein conditioner.
I do these once every 4-6 weeks and use a protein conditoner (a mild creamy one) weekly....if my hair feels a little haylike I use some NACIDIT and it's buttery again.
Now the frizz can DEFINITELY be helped by adding a dime sixed amount of serum to your hair after your leave in before you rollerset. Adore will help too. My hair frizzes less when there's a fresh rinse in it.
And - um...
I know roots are hard to get used to...but mamita I'm worried about your "re-coloring" too often. I color my hair twice a year. No more. Even just the rinse out of a permie color too often can be a problem. In other words you can only put the color on the roots just like it says and just the action of rinsing it out as it passes through those weakened relaxed ends can mean eventual disaster.
The color's hot. But it'll be just as hot with a little bit of roots....Twice a year. Three times TOPS. Cuidate, ma!