I have the same problem as well. I cut my hair mostly even at neck length in November. The front bangs were eye length. The bangs have grown almost to my nose tip, but the sides are still in my neck area. The back is already back at shoulder! Lesson learned, I won't be cutting it "even" again. My hair naturally grows in a v shape always has! You just have to go w/it. I find that wearing my hair layered it masks the fact that its not all one length. I guess I'll never be full SL, APL, or BSL, b/c my front will always be a little shorter.