Ladies, ive tried to perm my hair again and did not succeed my hair still looks nappy and i'm threw with trying to perm my hair myself. The problem is that I have only one person to perm my hair which is my mother's beauician who I feel broke off my shoulder length hair. How long am I going to have to wait to get a corrective relaxer. I will put hair grease on the straight relaxed part so she doesnt overlap (which she has a serious problem with). My mother hair is tough as nails and is brastap, she is a member, her hair has been brastap still I was a little girl. Please help