Everybody Wants A Feel

[TrustMeLove]

So, Ive recently gone natural. I don't think one person in my family has had natural hair since the 70's, or whenever afros were in style. Just had a family picnic yesterday and everybody feeling me up.

Hands in my hair..im like grrr. Keep your nastry barbeque, greasy, smoke smelling, dirty, grungy hands out my hair. I said this like 5 times..well I didn't go off on people like that..but I was like NOOOOO KEEP YOUR HANS OUT MY HAIR. Dang, do you see me touching everybody's new wig, fresh relaxer, new braid style etc.. Go touch their heads haha (I know this ain't right)

But, im the youngest, im 21, and im around my cousins who use to change my diapers and they are getting on my NERVES. I have to see these foo's today for my lil cousins Christianing. I don't know what to do. Help!!!!!

Help me out please..What do I say what do I do to make these fools leave me alone. The last time I had an incident with these bullies I had to pull a knife on them for them to get the point that I don't want to be bothered. I was like 7 at the dinner table, using a butter knife, and they stopped bothering me..haha I was crazy I know.

We can't take it there this day, not in the church. lol

Solutions Solutions. What do you do when people keep touching your hair? Or when people try?

-Trust

 

[pressncurl]

In situations like that, I try not to let it bother me and hope that everyone will get over it or get the awe/shock/curiosity/whatever out of their system quickly and leave me alone. But, in a way, I actually find it flattering, even if it is a bit annoying.

 

[Shatani]

i dont recommend showin ya ass in the church!!! at least we know today that their hands are clean...and maybe they got it all out of their systems at the bbq.

hate to say it, but to them youre always gonna be the little baby in the diapers...so, at some point youre gonna have to get stank wit em.

 

[ThursdayGirl]

Hey I don't remember seeing pics!!!! Bring on the Pics!!!!!

I'm not sure what I would do... but honestly ... I can only see my dance instructor and close friends doing this... I would remind them kindly... I'm not a bunny or a poodle... so don't pet me like one!

 

[jainygirl]

Next time somebody touches your hair put your hands all up in their hair at the exact same time. No matter how fresh her 'do even if she just got it styled. Do the same thing even if it's a bald male cousin, just get your hands all on his head. Just get your hands all up on their head and start molesting the hell out of it. Trust me they wont touch your hair again. I really dont like people just touching my hair .... then to top it off they dont even ask to give me the chance to say 'no' first. So I just started feeling their hair. That went over like a fart in church . Now they know to at least ask. -- jainygirl

 

[TrustMeLove]

Jainygirl, I love your hair hahaha.

I show everybody that has something to say about cutting my hair and how it was silly etc.. And nobody with long hair will ever cut they hair etc..YOUR ALBUM

And you should see their faces. Their jaws drop..they just can't believe it hahaha. I love it!

And Mrs. Lady why did you pin point the exact characters in my family. The bald headed ones..hahaha..

Thanks for your advice everyone..Good looking out

-Trust

 

[Allandra]

This is one reason why I don't wear my hair down a lot.

 

[jainygirl]

@ the family members. Girl they are everrryyywhere.

Thank you . Whenever someone tells me they are scared to chop, I just say. "Girl, nah you'll be alright ." I'm a bad advice giver on transitions. I'm like the the shortest distance between two points is 'snip, snip, snip" . -- jainygirl

Jainygirl, I love your hair hahaha.

I show everybody that has something to say about cutting my hair and how it was silly etc.. And nobody with long hair will ever cut they hair etc..YOUR ALBUM

And you should see their faces. Their jaws drop..they just can't believe it hahaha. I love it!

And Mrs. Lady why did you pin point the exact characters in my family. The bald headed ones..hahaha..

Thanks for your advice everyone..Good looking out

-Trust