This is just my opinion . . .
If you NEED a trim, get a trim. It is not really length if your ends are damaged and it makes your hair look bad. Additionally, the damaged ends tangle easier and cause possilbe breakage when they tangle with other hairs. They also make ALL of your hair more succeptable to damage.
Once you get a good trim, your HHJ gets much easier. Yes you will lose length initially, but if you are taking care of your hair you should only need subsequent dustings. 1/8 inch dusted off 1/month means you would only lose 1.5 inches for the year. Even at 3 inches/year you are retaining half of your growth. If you have a solid successful regimen you should be getting your 6 inches/year. At that rate, even if your initial trim reduces 3 inches, you would still get 1.5 inches the first year. Barrring any setbacks you should be good.
Even though people do not really talk about it, if you really peruse the folktis, you can see that a lot of successful HJs started with a good trim.
The key here?
- Get a stylist who undertands what a dusting is.
- Recognize that UNEVEN ends to not necessarily mean unhealthy ends. Your hair grows at uneven rates. Within a month after getting a trim, your ends may no longer look even. Do not be fooled into thinking they are split or thinking I need to get a trim.
- Understand the difference between trimming for health and trimming/cutting for style. if you are truly trying to grow your hair out, only trim for health (and then maintain the health while you dust). Forgo the BLUNT type styles until you have the length you want. If you keep trimming for blunt styles, you will keep your hair at the same length of your original cut
- If you want to keep the blunt styles, let your stylist know that you are growing it out. They will start to blend and feather the ends so that you retain most of your length and the style and shape. I had a stylist who was EXTREMLY good at this, and my hair retained shape while I grew it out. Plus the growth was incredibly evident because one could see the difference in the stlye itself.
Either way . . . good luck!!