azul11
Well-Known Member
I am really contemplating doing my own touchups. I am just at a point where I tired of shelling out hundreds of dollars and not liking the results that I get. The main problem may be me. I dont speak up during the processing therefore the stylist usually have free reign. Also they seem to pressure me to do services I may not want to do but I agree with it only because I always feel in the back of my head well she must know what she is doing.
Now I am considering doing my own touchups because I dont like how my hair has come out. When I first got it done I had comments like your hair doesnt have the body it used to And by no means is my hair thin or fine. I think the relaxer (affirm lye)that the stylist I went to is a bit strong and the stylist leaves it in till its bone straight and I always have that shallacked (sp?)look to me.
When my old stylist used no lye my hair always had body, just now it has shine to it which it didnt have before.
then when i left my stylist and went to mirror image they raked through my hair with the smallest comb and both times i went i tried a lye relaxer revlon and motions and each time my hair didnt look like it was done like a week later. but it still had body.
then i go to the new stylist and then i get it relaxed bone straight and then flat ironed and my hair doesnt look thick at all and the stylist even said your hair isnt as thick as it was when you first came to me.
nothing has changed in my routine and every month my roots are the same as they always are, thick and full of new growth.
I am at a point where I feel I will never be happy. I will be running from stylist to stylist hoping for the best. I am tired of wasting my money.
This summer I started doing rollersets on my own. mind you I have two left hands but I washed, conditioned and roller set and air dried every week. the results shocked me. First I was shocked that a air dried roller set could produce such silky results. second i was so proud of the fact that I did it on my own. AND FOR FREE!!
and third it gave me comfort in knowing that I could experiment with different products and not feel like i am questioning someone's products or paying extra for a deep condtioner or waiting for a stylist to finish eating or talking on the phone or gossiping before i can get serviced.
The next hurdle is doing the self relaxer. I may get assistance but I mainly want to be able to control the straightness of my hair, the products used and the procedures done to my hair.
The main thing is I am scared. I always have this self doubt like I will screw up so bad that I will go running right back to the people I was running from.
I am just wondering who out there is doing it on their own or is like me and considering to do it on their own. All I know is if I decide to do this this will save me a buttload of money.
Anyone out there? God bless you all.
Now I am considering doing my own touchups because I dont like how my hair has come out. When I first got it done I had comments like your hair doesnt have the body it used to And by no means is my hair thin or fine. I think the relaxer (affirm lye)that the stylist I went to is a bit strong and the stylist leaves it in till its bone straight and I always have that shallacked (sp?)look to me.
When my old stylist used no lye my hair always had body, just now it has shine to it which it didnt have before.
then when i left my stylist and went to mirror image they raked through my hair with the smallest comb and both times i went i tried a lye relaxer revlon and motions and each time my hair didnt look like it was done like a week later. but it still had body.
then i go to the new stylist and then i get it relaxed bone straight and then flat ironed and my hair doesnt look thick at all and the stylist even said your hair isnt as thick as it was when you first came to me.
nothing has changed in my routine and every month my roots are the same as they always are, thick and full of new growth.
I am at a point where I feel I will never be happy. I will be running from stylist to stylist hoping for the best. I am tired of wasting my money.
This summer I started doing rollersets on my own. mind you I have two left hands but I washed, conditioned and roller set and air dried every week. the results shocked me. First I was shocked that a air dried roller set could produce such silky results. second i was so proud of the fact that I did it on my own. AND FOR FREE!!
The next hurdle is doing the self relaxer. I may get assistance but I mainly want to be able to control the straightness of my hair, the products used and the procedures done to my hair.
The main thing is I am scared. I always have this self doubt like I will screw up so bad that I will go running right back to the people I was running from.
I am just wondering who out there is doing it on their own or is like me and considering to do it on their own. All I know is if I decide to do this this will save me a buttload of money.