TRYING2GROW said:
Sistaslick,
I really admire your hair, and you taking time to help other people to understand their hair.
No problem! Hmmm... choosing a deep conditioner :scratchch
In my experience, the very best DEEP conditioners have been salon conditioner products. They tend to be thicker, creamier, more deep penetrating, more concentrated, and more expensive than their drug store counterparts. But even with the price difference, it's always good to have a very good, quality moisturizing deep conditioner in your regimen. You can skimp on a shampoo, and even on your moisturizers-- but to me, a deep conditioner can make or break a regimen.
I'd make sure the conditioner doesn't have petrolatum, mineral oil*, or zillions of "cones" too close to the water in the ingredient list. A cone or two, natural oils, or oil derivatives are okay. Anything with lots of humectants or "hydrolized" ingredients lets you know that its meant for improving your hair's moisture content and aiding in maximum penetration respectively.
*Mineral oil is one of those things that really depends on the total formula of the product. KeraCare comes to mind on this one. It's a good moisturizing line that just so happens to contain mineral oil. You'll have to shop around and experiment, but that's the fun part!