I agree with
krissyhair. The key to success for my natural hair is KISS. I make my hair care routine as simple or as complex as I like. Meaning I know what basic elements my hair needs to thrive, however if I want to get fancy I will add in extra.
Starting off, your regimen should consist of basic hair care techniques. For example you could start off with this simple regimen and tweak it as your hair sees fit.
1. Weekly washing with a moisturizing cleanser
2. Deep Conditioning weekly
3. Moisturizing and sealing daily
4. Protein conditioner or reconstructor once every 4-6 weeks
As a new or lazy natural it would benefit you to keep your hair in a protective style or low maintenance style to prevent you from having to mess with it too much. I would not suggest a long term protective style because you need to get to know your hair. However, something like twist, twist outs, braids, or braid outs with your natural hair can help you keep your hair stretched and prevent tangles. Over manipulation on natural hair may cause tangles, SSK, and heavy detangling sessions come wash time if you’re not careful. So I recommend that if you do choose to wear twist outs or braid outs that you try to refrain from twisting and braiding every night. Instead you could try pinappleing or wearing the individual twist or braids and just style them.
Also, I suggest you start to learn and understand the characteristics of your hair. This will keep you from expecting results that your hair is not capable of and in turn you will learn to appreciate it for its uniqueness. Styling and daily care will become easier once you obtain a better understanding of your own strands.