LoveBeautyKisses
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So I recently fell into a financial loop. After I was layer off from my job I had my son a year ago I ran into a little problem with money and I was living off of a little. I had to get back on my feet and quick. Around the time my son turned about 8 months I began to take classes at a local community college. I was unable to pay for daycare for my son so my child's father helped pay about 50 a week to my grandparents who both agreed to watch my son. Unfortunately by the end of my class my child's father stopped paying thus, leaving my grandparents to look to me for his reason on non payment.
I eventually had to get government assistance at the time. I didn't want but I had to in order to support my son because the little income I had from my savings running out. The state filed for Child support for me.
Me and him argued that it wasn't right. He eventually got his mother (who works for a local ****ty daycare chain) to try to get my son into a daycare that I wasn't comfortable with due to bad ratings and young girls baby sitting poorly. I didn't want my son to go there. She was basically trying to making me feel bad about asking him for money. But come to find out he was paying off a debt that she put in his name when he was a child.
Me and him made up and then things were going well.he got the letter of the court date and everything. He wasn't mad then.
We ended up going to court then he really began acting mean towards me ever since. He broke up with me because of it. I am hurt by that. The judge ordered him to pay 230 a month and I asked could I lower it because I just need enough for my sons essentials and plus I was about to begin working since I have 2 amazing job offers. She said I would have to wait within 21 days to appeal.
Things were beginning to become better between us. He's a great father I just feel like he could give more since I have my son 24/7
I'm going to start school in January
Should I take him off?
Am I being selfish?
I eventually had to get government assistance at the time. I didn't want but I had to in order to support my son because the little income I had from my savings running out. The state filed for Child support for me.
Me and him argued that it wasn't right. He eventually got his mother (who works for a local ****ty daycare chain) to try to get my son into a daycare that I wasn't comfortable with due to bad ratings and young girls baby sitting poorly. I didn't want my son to go there. She was basically trying to making me feel bad about asking him for money. But come to find out he was paying off a debt that she put in his name when he was a child.
Me and him made up and then things were going well.he got the letter of the court date and everything. He wasn't mad then.
We ended up going to court then he really began acting mean towards me ever since. He broke up with me because of it. I am hurt by that. The judge ordered him to pay 230 a month and I asked could I lower it because I just need enough for my sons essentials and plus I was about to begin working since I have 2 amazing job offers. She said I would have to wait within 21 days to appeal.
Things were beginning to become better between us. He's a great father I just feel like he could give more since I have my son 24/7
I'm going to start school in January
Should I take him off?
Am I being selfish?
at your responses.
