Bridezilla Revisited

[mj11051]

So I talked to my friend yesterday and told her I couldn't be apart of her wedding. 1. I'll never get another relaxer 2. gotta have back surgery on the 7th of next month. 3. You couldn't be much of a friend if you think my hair needs a permanent change for your wedding. 4. You're being such a witch your maid of honor quit.She was quite surprised and thought I would just bend to her will.

 

[Janet']

Wow......Seems like there is a lil bit more going here than hair. I am glad that you stood up for yourself, though! Best wishes on your back surgery, too!

 

[butterfly_wings]

I think she was asking a bit too much of you, you shouldn't have to put your happiness aside for anyone

 

[mj11051]

I think she was asking a bit too much of you, you shouldn't have to put your happiness aside for anyone

And I never will.

 

[Vashti]

I'm glad you drew a line in the sand. Some things can just get ridiculous.

 

[kandiekj100]

Good for you. Did she really ask for your to relax your hair though? Wow, not a weave or a wig,but straight up relax. That is a bit much (well more than a bit).

 

[newbeginnings2010]

You made the right decision! I didn't comment in your previous thread, but I read it. Eight out of nine of my bridesmaids were, and still are, natural! They actually asked me in advance if I was going to want them to change their hair. I didn't even ask them to do a uniform hairstyle. To be honest, if I had all white bridesmaids, I would have them with the same hairstyle, but I feel like our hair is a part of our culture, whether it's spiritual for some, or just fun for others. I didn't want to intrude on that. Heck, bridesmaids are already being told what clothes to wear and what to do, AND they are throwing the bride a shower/bachelorette party. Isn't that enough?

 

[mj11051]

Did she really ask for your to relax your hair though?

yes she did